kids........

Jacquelyn Posted: Jan 27, 2008 01:53 PM

kids........

Cheryl28 Posted: Jan 27, 2008 01:54 PM

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we want to wait a year but not much longer. Maybe even before a year, i would like some time just me and fh but if it happened i wouldn't mind. I can't wait to have kids

Wifeynella Posted: Jan 27, 2008 01:54 PM

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i have a reproductive issue so both FH and i want to start trying the first year since we will probably have a problem

Mici n KC Posted: Jan 27, 2008 01:55 PM

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We're going to wait. We want to be enjoy being married.

Jacquelyn Posted: Jan 27, 2008 01:55 PM

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Oh, I am sorry! Good luck ;)

lookitscassie Posted: Jan 27, 2008 01:56 PM

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we have a 4 year old (well FH does, but i consider him mine haha) we will prob wait like 2 years to have a baby. want to get settled get a house all that good stuff.

i cant wait. ive already got baby fever

FinallyEngaged Posted: Jan 27, 2008 01:58 PM

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we want to wait at least one year... i want to enjoy one year of marriage...one year of just us... being able to just get up and go!

Jacquelyn Posted: Jan 27, 2008 01:58 PM

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I am right there with you FH wants kids as of 5 years ago......

wo0shply Posted: Jan 27, 2008 01:59 PM

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told FH and his mom that we have to wait at least 5 years. I want to enjoy being married and we need to recoup from the cost of this wedding LOL

AllyDrew1108 Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:05 PM

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No kids for us. Ever. Our selfish life-styles and finances don't really allow for 'em.

Bella77 Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:09 PM

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probably within 3 yrs. he is just starting residency this summer so it wouldn't be wise for us to start. plus i love my life the way it is right now, i like my job, feel like i'm advancing in my career, and i don't want to take a break just yet!!

Jacquelyn Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:11 PM

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Is FH going to be a doctor? Where is starting residency, I work at two different Hospitals....

Shell84 Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:12 PM

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I want to wait two years before westart trying. I am starting my masters in the fall so I want to finish it before i'm preggers.

kimandvin Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:14 PM

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Probably until we can afford a house which will be after I am done with my Masters doing Speech pathology.. I should be done in about 2 years.. Give or take.. If I wasn't in school though we woudl be buying a house right away!

Bella77 Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:14 PM

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Posted by Jacquelyn

Is FH going to be a doctor? Where is starting residency, I work at two different Hospitals....

Yes he is - hasn't done the match yet but he's going to rank north shore and downstate.

Jacquelyn Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:16 PM

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Very nice, try to be very supportive (which I'am sure you are).

Bella77 Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:26 PM

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Posted by Jacquelyn

Very nice, try to be very supportive (which I'am sure you are).

thanks - i try
it's a difficult process but i just hope he ends up happy with whatever the outcome.

hyphenbride Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:26 PM

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Posted by Bella77

probably within 3 yrs. he is just starting residency this summer so it wouldn't be wise for us to start. plus i love my life the way it is right now, i like my job, feel like i'm advancing in my career, and i don't want to take a break just yet!!

FH will be in his last year of residency when we get married. I've told him that we definitely need to wait until he's no longer working nights. I really couldn't take a baby crying all night and being alone. I already hate it when he's on call at night and I'm alone (I've become a weiner. I used to live alone in a city...now I live in the suburbs and if I hear a noise at night I flip!). Plus, FH would definitely be better with kids than I would. He does peds and I have only held 2 babies...only on 2 occasions.

Oh, babies...anyway, it'll have to wait until I'm ready. Which will be a while. For now, the cats will do.

Luvbsb4eva Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:27 PM

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Not yet either, both FH and I are finishing up school this year, and my FH is doing a residency too... a pharmacy practice residency, so for about 2 years we'll have that huge pay cut. We definately want to wait until he's done with that before we had kids. Plus I just worked so hard through school for my degree, I'd love to work full time for a few years before I have to cut back a little bit! And we want to enjoy each other by ourselves for a bit too, and we're both young... alot of reasons!

Luvbsb4eva Posted: Jan 27, 2008 02:28 PM

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Posted by Bella77

Posted by Jacquelyn

Very nice, try to be very supportive (which I'am sure you are).

thanks - i try
it's a difficult process but i just hope he ends up happy with whatever the outcome.

Uggh isn't the waiting the worst? I hate it, lol

Especially since FH applied to these progams all over the country, I have no idea where we're going to be living!