When to have? How many? Have you discussed this with FH? Are you on the same page with FH? And how many of you families will not stop asking about this? From the minute we got enaged everyone has been asking when we plan on having children! It's so insane! I kinda just want to tell everyone to mind their own business ! Ok thanks for letting me vent! I just wanted to see where you ladies were on this issue?
pandafish519
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FH is older than me and we want to be young having our kids. so we plan to try and have them shortly after getting married. we definitely want more than one, but we'll have to decide after the first kid!! i have 3 sisters and two are getting married so talk of children is a little crazy. they don't really ask about it, they joke about how i am going to get pregnant first because the know that we want kids SOOOOON!
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seriously - people should mind their OWN BUSINESS. The only thing I would say is absolutely discuss with FH. Just to know you are on same page. We discussed it but have no firm # for kids but just to know you want to or don't and a ballpark - like if he wants 5 and you want 1 - it's hard. We watched this show on sextuplets the other day and did decide if we had six we would for sure give 3 away!! jk
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KIDS !!!!!!!!!! We have 4 already !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! .....have plenty of them !!!!!!!!!!!!! They are great !!!!!!!!!!!
PrincyJo
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I def. think people should just let it be discussed between H&W. We are on the same page about kids.. we both want 3.
Summertimegal424
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we can't wait to have kids! we would have them now...if it weren't an issue w/ family members caring so much ( not that i really care what they think ...but) we want it to kinda be traditional...lol even tho we are living together in sin already ha ha ha
ideally we would like 3 kids...the two eldest boys and the youngest a girl...we already have names picked out and everything lol
im sure that is not how it will work out...but we can dream right?
JamieAnt06202009
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We both want 3 and have decided that we will wait until after our 1 year anniversary and then start trying.
ddnsp618
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we are very young still, so we are going to wait unitl 2011 or 2012...we both really want kids, and we feel very strongly about having them and me staying home with them. we want a boy 1st (stuart chase p III) and then a little girl (Leila Danielle P) we cant wait!
i think it is super important to be on the same page as FH in regards to kiddies.
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if FH could have a soccer team he would! he wants lots of them! we have had this discussion often, we will definitely wait between 6mos to a year after we get married...
PoppedInASnap
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Our families know with my medical problems there will be no kids for a minimum of three years...I wish sooner but thats what god wants fr me
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Posted by ddnsp618
we are very young still, so we are going to wait unitl 2011 or 2012...we both really want kids, and we feel very strongly about having them and me staying home with them. we want a boy 1st (stuart chase p III) and then a little girl (Leila Danielle P) we cant wait!
i think it is super important to be on the same page as FH in regards to kiddies.
OMG DANIELLE thats the name of the first girl vinnie wants!! Lanie or Leila!!
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Fh and I are both planning on having them soon after we get married. We havn't discussed an amount b/c he just doesn't realize how much work it is...HA. I have 6 neices and nephews that i used to watch, so I have an idea. He just wants to make sure we have a boy...to carry on his name. LOL. so, if we have 3 girls, ... we're prolly kep trying for a boy. HA
Kris2782
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i think we are gonna try soon after the wedding but not too soon.... maybe 8 months to a year later.... FH wants them now lol.... we have said 2 or 3 .... i vote for 4 lol
tammi2308
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We would both like to be married at least a year before we start trying. And we both want 2-3 kids.
coldasice217
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FH and I both want 3, and we'd like to have them young, but financially it's hard. We're probably going to have to go on our HM in June or July if we end up going to Greece, so we'd probably try to prevent anything until at least after that. After that, whatever happens happens, we won't try to prevent anything.
MEMEJOR
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we cant wait to have kids... we are hoping to have shortly after the wedding... as for how many... maybe 4
Espo22
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thank god we dont have people bothering us about this lol and we're married.
We both are on the same page, we dont want one right away, we want to enjoy our marriage a little bit first and get some things in order. I am NOT picking a specific time to have a baby by, getting pregnant is not that easy and it can be a very difficult process. About 1 in 4 women or was it 1 in 3 women will have difficulties getting pregnant and it can take a bit of time so i wont set myself up for disappointment.
At first i said i want 4 kids hahaha, but it is very expensive now so realistically ill say 2 which is what DH wants. Maybe i'll go for 3, i'll see as we go. But we do have the names already picked out haha
gina409
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i know people r always asking that and it can ne annoying but we r lucky because since i have 7 neices and nephews the heat is take off us for a bit lol but we both want to start trying after our first year and hopefully all will work out we both want 3
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It's nice to know others are in the same boat. We bothg want 2-3, but he wants to have them right away after the wedding, I think I want to see where we are fincially a year from now. FH is so wonderful with children though so I know whenever it happens he will be a great daddy! As for our families hopefully they will get the hint to mind their own business! Thanks ladies!
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I already have one with my FH, but everyone should know where their FH stands on this because Kids change everything. We are planning on htrying for another one a few months after the wedding. Being a mom is one of the greatest joys you will every experience, so if you want one and FH does make sure you know that.
