Kids

littlepixie12 Posted: Sep 15, 2008 01:15 PM

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nobody has really told us when are you going to have kids .. thank god! Fh and I want to wait about two years before we start trying ... we want to try to have all our ducks in a row first

Christaly Posted: Sep 15, 2008 06:35 PM

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I want 1 he wants 2... we're going to have 1!
LOL he knows where I stand and he says 1 is fine. Though this psychic told us we would have 2... maybe I end up changing my mind?

My mother told me to start having kids before FH even proposed... oh my. It was a shocker... it made me feel kind of old (like she was losing hope for me!) all my life she was huge on marriage, then babies... now it's different?

Scary.

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Sep 15, 2008 06:44 PM

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We are trying right away. I have one already and so does he. One more and thats it! Im closing up shop

ddnsp618 Posted: Sep 15, 2008 06:52 PM

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

Posted by ddnsp618

we are very young still, so we are going to wait unitl 2011 or 2012...we both really want kids, and we feel very strongly about having them and me staying home with them. we want a boy 1st (stuart chase p III) and then a little girl (Leila Danielle P) we cant wait!

i think it is super important to be on the same page as FH in regards to kiddies.

OMG DANIELLE thats the name of the first girl vinnie wants!! Lanie or Leila!!

can our leila's be little bff's???

MannysBunny Posted: Sep 15, 2008 06:54 PM

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We both want 2-3 kids, and we want to wait at least 2 years after we are married to start trying.

shell1879 Posted: Sep 15, 2008 08:30 PM

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Posted by angels914

KIDS !!!!!!!!!! We have 4 already !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! .....have plenty of them !!!!!!!!!!!!! They are great !!!!!!!!!!!

god bless you both

FH is dead set on twins but um well there are no twins in my family and hes is addopted so we have no idea...i have 1 already and be both decided we will try for another 1 possibly 2 but if we have fertility problems we have my daughter and that is good enough for us

MirabellaNYC Posted: Sep 15, 2008 11:17 PM

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we've been talking about kids for a while..
we definitely want 2, and to have them close together..we'll probably start trying within a year after the wedding.
First we want to buy a house in Merrick (hopefully) but we'd have to sell our apartments first (We're each homeowners already).
But YES we want babies!!
Its weird that people always ask you that..My mom is on fire for a grandkid...

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 08:21 AM

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We definitely want them, but plan on waiting about 2 yrs after the wedding to start trying. We want to buy a house, travel, and enjoy the newlywed phase. I'd like 2 or 3, he likes the idea of 1 That annoyed me because we're both so close to our sisters and brothers that I can't imagine he wouldn't want those same bonds and relationships for his own kids!

Plus twins run in my family

VickiR510 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 09:38 AM

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We discuss it alot. FH would like 3 kids i want two. So we settled with 2. hahahaha We will start trying about 6 months after our wedding!

baba022 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 10:01 AM

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Posted by meara

seriously - people should mind their OWN BUSINESS. The only thing I would say is absolutely discuss with FH. Just to know you are on same page. We discussed it but have no firm # for kids but just to know you want to or don't and a ballpark - like if he wants 5 and you want 1 - it's hard. We watched this show on sextuplets the other day and did decide if we had six we would for sure give 3 away!! jk

thats great!! LOLLOL

baba022 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 10:09 AM

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i have two brothers and we are closer than ever, so i always wanted at least three....i dont know about that anymore... FH would be happy with just one....but we will settle with what god gives us....fh would say we are having a honeymoon baby (he is 36 and wants one while he is on the young side...) but we discussed and decided we are going to wait a year before we start trying - i have a few issues so i dont want to have them right away....I also want to enjoy it just being us married for a little bit :)

MEL0880 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 10:12 AM

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We have one already (she will be 5 in oct) but we def want more... may be a year or so after the wedding we will try for number 2...

meli722 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 08:51 PM

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im always back and forth with this question lol

when were ready well know. not anytime soon though because i just started my masters degree classes and they are ALOT harder then i thought, we already have 1 kid together, our daughter, and i couldnt IMAGINE doing it with two kids...i come home, have to cook, give her a bath, do homework, then do my own homework, eat, clean or try to get some laundry in there since i have a washing machine, take a shower and finally sleep...i couldnt imagine if i had two kids doing all that! with that said, i dont know when lol....me and FH have to sit down and discuss it , i already know he wants another one soon after the wedding though

Lisa218 Posted: Sep 16, 2008 09:37 PM

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Fh and I both agree that we would like to have two children. In our fantasy world we would like a boy and a girl. In reality we just want whatever it is to be healthy......

We haven't decided on when yet...I would say 2-3 years later.

and i cannot stand when people ask us this.. C'mon people, let us at least get married!!

Im a Pepper Posted: Sep 16, 2008 09:40 PM

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No time soon but definitely some day. We're in agreement that we'd rather have none than just one. FH comes from a big family and he wouldn't mind a few children. I'm still on the fence but as an only child I'm committed to having more than 1 if I have any at all.

Nobody has really asked us about our plans for having children but I'm sure it's an annoying question to get all the time!

simbaspaws Posted: Sep 17, 2008 02:16 PM

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Hopefully very soon!!! We both have major baby fever and I will go off BC after the wedding, just to get my body into a natural state again lol and than we will try maybe after 4-8 month after our wedding and see what happens.
We are both not super young anymore and I think we had enough us time, since we have been living together for awhile.
The only thing that worries me sometimes is, if we will be ready financially next year...hope that will all fall into place and than we will know more... I cannot wait and we would like 2-3 kids, i think....

Autumnbride03 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 02:25 PM

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Nobody has asked us this. Probably because I'm only 22.

FH is one of six so he always said he wanted six kids and I just laughed at him lol but now he says he wants two. I want three but we'll see what happens after the first one lol!!

FH will be 27 so he wants to start trying right away, but I told him I want to wait at least one year to enjoy it being 'just us'.

Part of me is scared. FH's nephew has autism and I don't think I could do nearly a good of job as his sister does, I'm not sure what side of the family it came from! Unless it was from baby vaccines, as some people are starting to think is responsible for the HUGE increase in autism in boys.... (1 in 70 boys have a form of Autism today! so scary!!)

I told FH we are having all girls because of that. He said they will only be allowed to wear snowpants until they are 35 hahahaa.