Kids -- Do you want them?
Original post by FallBride2010
I actually dont. FH ahs two that live with us...and they are more than I can handle. It's just asming that people think I am insane when I tell them I dont want them. My dad called me the other day and said...' we didnt raise you like this, traci. where does this come from?' Like i am making a bad decision! Anyone else not want kids?
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my and fh have talked about it yes we want kids. i really want one now. i have two neices and 1 nephew and i want one of my own. but fh said we will at least wait till after the wedding when we by our house
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Deffinitely want 3-4. I've always just had a very strong maternal feeling. But if you dont have that feeling, dont have kids just to satify mom/fmil/other people. Do what you feel!
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we both want kids. we are unsure on the number still. although we were in the super market last night & this little boy was screaming & crying because his sister hit him. so FH looked at me & said, 'i see why you say at least 5 years in between kids.'
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i can't wait to have kids! but not just yet
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you can add me to the NO WAY .... lol says YEA ... not now lmao ... i just love othr ppls kids
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I want kids. Immediately. Yesterday. We'll adopt if we have to, but we'll be trying for kids right after the wedding.
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FH and I will probably start trying a year or so after we get married. If it doesnt work for us, then I think we will probably go childless. While I would love to adopt, most international would be out for us because a lot of countries deny you for medical problems. And domestic adoption can be a long hard road and I honestly dont think I have the heart that can wait it out.
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yes we want kids, we talk about it all the time