kids or no kids... has this been an issue for anyone?
Original post by kimmy02
at first my FH and i were on the same page.. we were planning on having an adult party.. but now things have changed... Were sending out STD's soon and need to get the official list together.. but FH informs me that he apparently thinks if some of his family members are coming from CA they should bring their kids...
i say there is no grey area... i cant tell my family in the next town to get a babysitter so his family with children can come cause they are traveling.... and his mother already mentioned its ok to bring their children... ???
am i wrong?
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Re: kids or no kids... has this been an issue for anyone?
Posted by MikesBride2B
I don't think you are wrong, however I see where he is coming from, since many of my OOT relatives have children. We are having an adult only reception, but I've already decided that if child care is the only thing holding someone back from coming to the wedding, we will provide a babysitter or two (depending on how many children there are) at the hotel during the wedding/reception so that the adults can attend and not have to worry about the children.
we're having kids at the wedding because we really want them there...but if you don't want them, i totally agree with ilana's post above about childcare.
kimmy02
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Re: kids or no kids... has this been an issue for anyone?
thank you ladies so much... this is going to be a bit of a battle for us but thank you all for your advice! my mother mentioned a babysitter for the hotel a while ago, i thought she was nuts.. and i told her i didnt want to arrange that.. BUT that idea is looking pretty good right now... thanks!
