Kids...are they invited???

Original post by novia26

Dec 17, 2007 01:21 PM

I am not sure because I love my nieces and nephews and so does fh, so I definitely want them there. I also see the plus in not having kids present.

stephlovesseyi Posted: Dec 17, 2007 04:19 PM

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Yes kids are invited to the wedding, but they will be my little cousins, neices and nephews

PoppedInASnap Posted: Dec 17, 2007 04:37 PM

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With our wedding being a destination... we HAVE to invite the kids. But thats okay..its DISNEY!! lol

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 05:04 PM

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I'm torn. I dont want them really but I think it would be cute to have kids come in costume. I guess I have time to decide.

beram63 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 05:20 PM

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Posted by Cacarina

only kids in bridal party. and they will leave early anyways

ditto

little34 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 05:21 PM

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No kids under 5 for us....and we are only inviting first cousins....there aren't too many under 16 so it is like we are not having kids.

And I am not having any kids in the BP.

GinaBambina08 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 05:29 PM

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another topic FH and I are arguing about

soonT0beMrsD Posted: Dec 17, 2007 05:30 PM

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its so hard, of course i want some of my little cousins there but at the same time i dont want a bunch of kids running all aorund, and i dont want my family getting upset that their kids werent invited...... im sure i will invite them though

dazies1011 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 07:58 PM

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I have a son and he will be 14 by the time of the wedding. But my flower girl will be 9 or 10 so that is my limit on age. I will only have 3-4 around 10 but, anything under that I am not inviting. I work with kids all the time and dont want to have to deal with them on MY day, even though I love them.

meli722 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 08:28 PM

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only kids will be the ones in the BP , and they will be FHs niece and my daughter as flowergirls, thats it. i really do not want any kids at all! people in Fhs family are already saying they might not come if they cant bring their kids, which is fine with me......kids are unnecessary at a wedding, they run around too much, and if theyre little cry too much, they dont even know whats going on at a wedding, so for MY WEDDING, no children besides those 2

bluegreen08 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 08:31 PM

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We dont really have many kids to invite... no FG or RB because there are no little kids

We're inviting our first cousins (FH's youngest is 16, my youngest is 15 + one who is 8) but they are all close family and we cant imagine not inviting them. None of our friends have kids and any really really extended family members with kids prob don't expect them to be invited.

I'm hoping it wont be an issue....

CNC4eva3402 Posted: Dec 17, 2007 08:39 PM

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We're only inviting immediate family and a few friends and I can't picture my day without the kids I'm close with!! If the parents want a nite to themselves they don't HAVE to bring them..but the option is there...

Also, not sure how many RH offer this but it's something you girls can ask when looking if you want. When I went to Floral Terrace they had an extra room (meant for the groom and groomsmen if you were to get married there) that he said we could use it to hire a babysitter or just let the mothers know that its there if the babies start up or the kids just need some time away from the whole party...not a bad idea!