Well my MOH cannot go to my bachelorette party because she is 'very busy' throughout Sept. So we tried to work around her schedule, but it didn't work out so she's not going. Now one of my bm's (I have two plus the MOH) is saying how she will only go out to dinner because she is worried her husband might not be able to handle their baby if he acts up. The only who seems into this is my SIL who is my other BM. I just feel as if this is a big inconvenience for everyone so I feel like saying F---- it let's not do this at all. I feel like everyone is going to feel this is the lamest bachelorette party (we're going to dinner & to some bars locally)....I'm just really down about it & I know I need to realize that it just turns out I'm getting married at a time when my friends are all new mothers...but part of me cannot help but get upset that not one of them initiated plans earlier as opposed to waiting until 3 weeks before my wedding. sorry needed to vent, thanks.
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my moh won't be at the dinner the nite before the wedding. they put her on at work. she gets off at 730 am and she'll come straight to the hotel to get her hair done.
i know how u feel
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I didn't have a bachelorette party because I was expected to plan it (nice, huh?!) and no one could be bothered with making a decision. So I scrapped it and don't regret it...better than going out with lame-os.
But if you want one, go out with your girlfriends...they don't have to be BM and have a fun night out. I'm sorry sometimes life is so complicated.
2BeAMrs.
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I think this whole cruddy BP seems to be contagious!!
We should all just go out and have one BIG PARTY!!!
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one of my BM's can't make my Bach party either. and we were suppose to go out with the guy part of the bp to dinner after spa day day and we may not be able to do that now either since my FI may have to work that night now. He's new at his job and is low man.
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I'm so sorry to hear that!! You should go out with some girlfriends and live it up. What would you like to do, if you could choose anything?
micmar
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Posted by 2BeAMrs.
I think this whole cruddy BP seems to be contagious!!
We should all just go out and have one BIG PARTY!!!
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm with you!!!
micmar
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I'm so sorry to hear that!! You should go out with some girlfriends and live it up. What would you like to do, if you could choose anything?
I would've liked to have gone to Fire Island had they began asking me earlier. But now that it's Sept, I'm fine with what we're doing, but feel nobody is really into it.
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I wish there was something I could do. I'm so sorry!
Mrs_B
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MY BRIDAL PARTY ***** TOO!! I say we have a LIW BP for everyone that has less than perfect bridesmaids/moh's!!!!!!!!!
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MY BRIDAL PARTY ***** TOO!! I say we have a LIW BP for everyone that has less than perfect bridesmaids/moh's!!!!!!!!!
i agree. i'm glad one sister is so helpful to me. please, i've been complaining to her about one sister.
micmar
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I don't know what's with these people!!! We'll have to have our own party!
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exotica776
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I am sorry to hear that, what is wrong w/ some people??? could u maybe do a spa day instead of going out at night... maybe that will be better for everyone's schedule??? if not, let us know, we will have one huge '05 bach party!!!
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Posted by micmar
I don't know what's with these people!!! We'll have to have our own party!
micmar
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Posted by exotica776
I am sorry to hear that, what is wrong w/ some people??? could u maybe do a spa day instead of going out at night... maybe that will be better for everyone's schedule??? if not, let us know, we will have one huge '05 bach party!!!
