Kind of pissed....

I invited 240 people to my wedding and so far only 111 have said yes. People I thought would come said no, and people I didn't think would come said yes. I have 35 RSVP's left and my response date is Wednesday. I don't think I am going to meet my minimum of 175.

The thing that frustrates me is the weird reasons people cannot come. 'I can't get off work' (ok, it's a saturday night), 'I can't find a babysitter'. My one Aunt, who is also my godmother and an alcoholic isn't coming. She told my grandmother she didnt go to her own daughters wedding she isnt coming to mine. What a ******* whacko! Myself and my parents always bent over backwards and shifted our schedules to attend family parties and functions. I just had 2 cousins cancel b/c there 4 yr. old son is graduating pre-school that day @ 9 in the morning. I can understand that they can't make it to the church at 3, but I definetely think the reception at 7 shouldnt be a problem. FH's sergeant who he is really good friends with has known about our wedding since we got engaged 1 1/2 yrs. ago. He isn't coming b/c he is going on vacation. Couldnt you plan your ******* vacation the next weekend. Some people are just so rude!!!! It just amazes me out of 240 people, I may not even meet my minimum.