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Kinda bummed...

kris_gets_hitched Posted:

Kinda bummed...

Last night I was on the phone with a friend of mine; we're really close, but she lives in Maui so with the time different, we don't talk much. We've been playing phone tag for a few weeks now, with either of us calling back while the other is sleeping or at work.
Anyway, backstory - she and I have been friends since we were 15. Sat together at h.s. graduation; college brought her out west to Oregon, but we maintained our friendship throughout the years and distance. Now she's in Maui (by way of Bali, Greece and Thailand), as she works in sea turtle research.
Last night I *finally* had a chance to tell her that we set a date and she told me she may not be able to make it...she's applied to a program for sea turtle research in Australia and if she gets accepted, she'll start in the beginning of June 2010. I knew all along that she might not be able to make it (flying in from Maui would be pricy!) and I really hope she makes it into the program since it's her passion...still a little bummed that she most likely won't be there though. She was actually very upset about it, almost to the point of crying.
I had kind of prepared for her to not make it since it'd be expensive to fly, but now that I know it's a big possibility (I can't see her not getting accepted; she'd gotten into every program so far), reality is setting in.
Jenna_and_John Posted:

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Aww I'm sorry to hear that, hang in there!!
blessed18 Posted:

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Awww im so sorry to hear that. I know how important it is for everyone that you love to be a part of such an important day.
FallBride2010 Posted:

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I'm sorry, I know how you feel. I have a bunch of friends in Hawaii and CA...and I really wanted them at my wedding. As they have all started to have kids this year, I am really doubtful any of them will make it. It's just life I guess...but you cant help being disappointed.

asg450 Posted:

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Aw, sorry Kris. At least you know that she is also upset that she will be missing your big day and that she is still a true friend.

Cheer up, don't be sad.
mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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StaceYums81 Posted:

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I'm sorry I know how you feel. Maybe it will be a way that it can work out
Clover23 Posted:

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Awww, that made ME sad - I can only imagine how you feel!
lilpiggy742 Posted:

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Jna2010 Posted:

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that stinks,but you never know, maybe she'll still be able to come even if she does get accepted, either way at least you know she cares and REALLY wants to be there

kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Thanks everyone. I think FH knew how bummed I was and he initiated a wedding activity for this weekend He said that we should tackle the official guest list SO WE COULD GET ON TOP OF THE STD'S.

I almost ! I mean...guest list is one thing but he knew was STD'S were! I had mentioned it before but figured he filed it in his 'too girly for me' category.

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