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kinda depressing question

brittndave Posted:

kinda depressing question

when my stepdad passed away we got so many flower arrangements and they just die... so when we got something different like an edible arrangement or something like that it was soooo refreshing to not get flowers.

one of my bms grandmother passed away on sunday and i want to send them something but not flowers. the edible arrangements that aren't small and cheap looking are $$$ so i need some ideas! pleaseeeeee help!
AngnShaun Posted:

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Harry & Davids... its not only fruit so it wont really go bad quickly

Jna2010 Posted:

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how much did you want to spend? you can get a decent size at fruit flowers for $50?

brittndave Posted:

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Posted by Jna2010

how much did you want to spend? you can get a decent size at fruit flowers for $50?



what's fruit flowers????
grkbarbie Posted:

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SEND THEM FOOD!

find out where the fam will be and just have an ital rest or whatever deliver a dish.. like a tray of lasagna.. or aspread of some sort.

no1 wants to cook while they are dealing with a death.

when my dad died my sil made lasagna... and brought it over. i will never forget that
Jna2010 Posted:

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Posted by brittndave


Posted by Jna2010

how much did you want to spend? you can get a decent size at fruit flowers for $50?



what's fruit flowers????



its like edible arrangements but smaller company
summerof2010 Posted:

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whats your budget?

I agree that food is the way to go. Its most appreciated.
MrsSx2 Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

Harry & Davids... its not only fruit so it wont really go bad quickly



this! Thats what we usually send.
Jna2010 Posted:

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i agree with barbs about the food

or a tray of assorted cookies or something like that
barbtony Posted:

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Are they local? I believe that Panera Bread will deliver a basket of stuff - be it sandwiches, pastries, etc. I usually send a peace lilly, which is a house plant - lasts much longer than flowers.

BriansWifey Posted:

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Posted by Jna2010

i agree with barbs about the food

or a tray of assorted cookies or something like that



ita!
FutureMrsSoltan Posted:

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i agree with barb too

the last thing people r thinking about is cooking.

it will be a nice change from all the flowers
brittndave Posted:

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no, they live in nj but i'm sure there's a panera or something like that around there!

i'd like to stay $75 or under
Future Mrs H Posted:

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When my uncle died She ( my aunt) requested no flowers so I sent a basket of Mrs. Fields cookies to her house.

Mrs Fields
NanandEric08 Posted:

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I agree with Barb, food is the way to go. When my papa passed away we had so many flowers but the food was great because people kept stopping over and we always had something to offer

Future Mrs H Posted:

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AwaitingAugust Posted:

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you can also check out 1800baskets.com for a nice gift basket (same company as 1800 flowers )
win01 Posted:

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When I lost my husband, I rec'd alot of things as people knew how I felt about large floral arrangments that die right away... Food was great to receive (honeybaked ham, harry david, Wolferson's english muffins (loved them now I order as holiday gifts...Williams Sonoma croissants...,)

I also recall a few other things:

-donation was made to feed the hungry at a local church... I know that was touching to me...

-a few different type outside plants for the garden (one azalea, one rose plant) They went to the funeral home with a note and I took them home and planted them in my garden..They are great reminders to me of my husband.

-Green plants for the home...They last and don't die.. I rec'd alot of them so some were donated to the school and nursing home....

-I would caution about fruit- as it spoils quickly and if they get alot of it, it may go to waste.. If it is the cut one, then I am sure people will pick at it while gathering...

lela7378 Posted:

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my cousins were thrilled when we sent Edible arrangements. I think that it is a nice idea

SummerBride10 Posted:

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Check out 1800flowers.com. They have alot of stuff there...baskets and whatnot.

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