Okay, so I am kind of upset about something with my MOH... and I know that it may seem trivial.. but it's the FIRST THING for the wedding that I asked her to be involved in.. and she WASNT!!
2 months ago, after booking Giorgio's I decided I wanted to bring my MOH as well as some other family members to see it.. at their Feb. Showcase.. so I cleared the date with my MOH, she was really excited to come...........or so I thought...ad then I made reservations for it and told her about it a few weeks ago.. as like a 'Ok are you still coming' everything was still good....
then she decides to drive up on sat night to purchase with her boyfriend to see a show... fine no problem.. she says.. o ill be back by 2pm... and i said ok ill pick you up at 245! no problem AT ALL...
Then I get a text in the morning saying that sh is going to be late.. and maybe she can 'meet us' at giorgios at 330.. now this is after I orkd out all the driving arrangements because with her coming we wouldn't fit in 1 car...and i was getting annoyed about the possibility of her just meeting us there and it was kinda like ... well just get me a ticket and leave my name at the door.. kind of a thing.. umm ok.... thanks! and then a few minutes later.. it was.. well we are at brunch with my aunt up here.. and she needs to talk to us and i don't get to see her that often!
i was like ARE YOU SERIOUS? I told her i was bummed being that we planned this 2 mos in advance.. and shewas like i feel bad but thanks for understanding.... i got another apology e mailt his morning.. but im still pissed....... would anyone else be pissed if they were me?
bluegreen08
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i would be
INNbride4409
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I would be pissed...However, I have decided that I just am not getting mad like I normally would. I decided if I get mad at every little (b/c I'm sure this is not the first time something like this will happen) then I would go crazy. I'm not doing that to myself.
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I don't blame you, I would be upset too. She knew this was important to you and it wasn't at the last minute. She knew 2 months before. That's not right.
Fall BZ 2009
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THAT MAKES TWO US...I WILL BE ANNOYED/UPSET
tinadansr
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i would be annoyed !! but try and let it go! SHe apologized right? so that's a step in the right direction
GO get a pedi or mani it will make you feel better!
's for you
JackieV
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i would be mad. I'm also having most of my girls come to an expo at our RH and i would be pissed if one did that to me. They also have known about this for 2 months. Try and relax.. mayeb talk to her.
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I would be, and to be honest if it keeps up I would personally rethink her as a MOH...this was strike one. Hopefully for you she gets more involved because I know how you feel...my MOH already has a strike! Good Luck!
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i would be annoyed but try to not to hold it against her. She if you can move passed it. SHe appologized. She is your best friend, she meant it.
PoppedInASnap
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i would be bothered. Esp since its your moh u know?
But did u have a good time?
fabulousmady
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I would most certainly be pissed off! but don't let that ruin things btwn the two of you. just brush it to the side.
Just Cindy
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I would be too but I have been told to not have high expectation from anyone so as they wont let you down. My MOH is a bit flaky so I would expect the same from her as well.
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i'm sorry that your MOH did that.... I would be upset, but maybe she didn't realize that it meant as much to you as it did until afterwards. you said that she apologized a few times afterwards. is she married? i feel like a lot of girls don't realize how important this is to us! i try to understand and not get too upset.
hope that you can work things out with her!!
Im a Pepper
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yes, that's upsetting. she should be involved in these things... ESPECIALLY when you make the plans so far in advance! she's your moh!!
beram63
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i probably would be, but i would probably also let it slide after the apology. that's just me.
RobNCyn
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Yes! I would absolutely be pissed! Of course I am one of those people who like to keep it in - but doesn't me you can;t still be angry.
flairforfashion
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I would be. But, MIL's do this kind of stuff. Don't know why- but they do. I am letting all things go that upset me- it is no point in getting riled up. We should all just look past it and enjoy our time.
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i would be, an even more so that she didnt call......but dont let it leave a bd taste in your mouth for to long......tell it upset you and move on......drag her to a bridal center to look at stuff for your eparty or something to make up for the lost time!
FutureMrsLehmann
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i'd be upset also, but try not to let it bother you too much. you don't want the bad feelings to fester
Utterhappiness
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I would be upset too.. you had these plans for 2 months you said.. like come on!
Tell her the truth about how you feel and then try you best to let it go... i know its easier said than done but try!
