Okay, so I am kind of upset about something with my MOH... and I know that it may seem trivial.. but it's the FIRST THING for the wedding that I asked her to be involved in.. and she WASNT!!
2 months ago, after booking Giorgio's I decided I wanted to bring my MOH as well as some other family members to see it.. at their Feb. Showcase.. so I cleared the date with my MOH, she was really excited to come...........or so I thought...ad then I made reservations for it and told her about it a few weeks ago.. as like a 'Ok are you still coming' everything was still good....
then she decides to drive up on sat night to purchase with her boyfriend to see a show... fine no problem.. she says.. o ill be back by 2pm... and i said ok ill pick you up at 245! no problem AT ALL...
Then I get a text in the morning saying that sh is going to be late.. and maybe she can 'meet us' at giorgios at 330.. now this is after I orkd out all the driving arrangements because with her coming we wouldn't fit in 1 car...and i was getting annoyed about the possibility of her just meeting us there and it was kinda like ... well just get me a ticket and leave my name at the door.. kind of a thing.. umm ok.... thanks! and then a few minutes later.. it was.. well we are at brunch with my aunt up here.. and she needs to talk to us and i don't get to see her that often!
i was like ARE YOU SERIOUS? I told her i was bummed being that we planned this 2 mos in advance.. and shewas like i feel bad but thanks for understanding.... i got another apology e mailt his morning.. but im still pissed....... would anyone else be pissed if they were me?
dazies1011
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I'd be upset also but, before you let it go talk to her. Let her know it hurt you and that you understand this time but, you'd like it if it doesnt happen again.
Danyell48
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i'd be upset, you planned this weeks beforehand, and you expected her to be there, i'd be disappointed.
KristiAnn923
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I'd be annoyed but it's something that I would get over. I know it's annoying and you planned it in advance. At least she said sorry. I know some people that wouldn't even do that
ANT-N-BON-09
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i'd be upset,but i would be happy after the sorry:) Second time around, i think i would dig her a grave! hah j/k
MrsDtoBe09
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I would be pissed for a little bit but get over it a few days later. Nothing to have a blow out over but still, it stinks that she did that to you.
mrsdraskin2009
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yeeeeahhh...i'd probably be upset too...more so because i'm of the mindset of being like, just tell me won't be there so i don't get realllly mad when you flake at the last minute....not too mad that she actually wasn't there, know what i mean???
anywhos,
longislandlibrarian
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thank you ladies for all of those hugs and great advice i needed it.. and you are all sooo right... 1. I am definitely upset and mad.. but I will be over it within the next few days.. and by the time i see her for our plans to all go out sat night ill be fine... im sure 2. If she starts flaking out more than on just this.. i am really going to stay something...... 3. I told her that I was upset she said sorry.. there really isn't too much else i can do but see if she really means the sorry and realizes that when I ask her something like that it's because I REALLY WANT HER THERE and it's IMPORTANT...
So we shall see. i will keep you all updated........... but i love that i can vent to you ladies and you totally get it
GinaBambina08
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I would definitely be disappointed and extremely annoyed, but I'd be like 'i'm so pissed at u, u have to make it up to me!!!' and then she'd say sorry and we'd laugh and get over it...
CollBride09
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I would be pissed but after awhile I know that I would calm down and be fine. But if it ever happens again I think that you should talk with her and explain to her that it really hurt your feelings.
