So FH and I have been talking for a while. And much to my dismay... we might not be getting married in 09..
Since my plans for graduating this semester didnt quite work out, and him finding a job isn't going easy. We decided to hold off on everything for a while at least. Even though all I want to be is his wife. (maybe we could elope.. lol) We might get married in 2010. I really dont want to, but I dont want to get married while I'm still in school. So since this topic isn't closed for us, I still believe there is hope that I can get married in 09. Well wish you all the best. I'll still be around. Happy Planning!!!
Ann 52409
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Thats great that you guys have your priorities in order. Dont leave the boards though... you can have a head head start on planning
xBrunette
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Posted by CNC4eva3402
Everything happens for a reason sweetie!!! I had to push my wedding back from summer 08 to summer of 09..and with how things are looking financially we may try and do a later summer wedding like Aug or Sept..and I'm not happy about pushing it back again. FH is applying for Court Officer and this whole process has taken over a year already..right now he is in the last stage, but there's no set time on when they will call him so its a waiting game. So because of that, we really can't plan too much for the wedding!!! Its driving me NUTS!! Sorry to ramble, but I just wanted to let you know I can relate to an extent! It really SUX but, hopefully its all for the better. I keep telling myself 'everything happens for a reason'!!
oOo and don't leave the board..I post on the 08 and 09 boards..everyone here is so informative and great. You can never have too many ideas!!!
....I know everything happens for a reason, but it still sux.... one of my co-workers applied a couple years ago to be a court officer... and last year he finally got a call back... after months of training, i think it was 6... he finally made it.. but he said it was reallllly hard, and people quit..... Tell FH goodluck... my FH has been tryin to be some kind of cop in NY, even in VA, but that toooo far.... so that's something else we have to deal with... thank u!!!
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you can still stay on the broad. Can you do like a civil married and then after school is over you can have a big party and just renew your vows at the RH
i thought about that.... butttt, we kinda wanted to do all or nothing... but it's still looking good...
THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR SUPPORT... but i'm staying... I'm really gonna sit down and talk to him and see if we can still get married in Sept of 09, but the honeymoon will have to wait.... i'll keep u guys updated... thanks for all the love
PoppedInASnap
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awwwwwwww
but you WERE originaly a 09er so you MUST stay with your roots!
soonT0beMrsD
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dont worry, i still havent booked a rh yet. i feel like im soo behind and that a june '09 wedding is getting closer and i wont have enough time to plan everything and save enough money. 2010 is looking a lot more realistic these days but we'll see
xBrunette
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Posted by soonT0beMrsD
dont worry, i still havent booked a rh yet. i feel like im soo behind and that a june '09 wedding is getting closer and i wont have enough time to plan everything and save enough money. 2010 is looking a lot more realistic these days but we'll see
i know what you mean... compared to everyone on this 09 board.... i feel like i'm waaayyyyy behind on everything... but sometimes i feel like 2010 is just wayyy to long to be engaged.. but then again, im just happy i'm with him....
