Kristi a.k.a Kdelace Please Read
I know that I should probably be doing this via FM, but since things got a little out of hand on the previous thread and I turned an innocent vent thread into a debate, I need to address Kristi publicly.
Kristi, they say sometimes a guy needs a good kick in the a$$ to see when he is in the wrong. And that's exactly what happened here and quite frankly, I deserved all of your comments and more.
Like Boosh said, I am an extremely opinionated and up-front person and sometimes I give opinions when they are not needed, nor wanted. Unfortunately, it's a guy thing -- we feel the need to voice opinions, whereas, most of the times, all we need to do is listen.
Please accept my apology for any of my past comments that were personal, opinionated, judgemental or negative. I can assure you, I have nothing against you. As a matter of fact, you're alot better than other women I have seen go through what you are going through, so you have my respect and admiration, for what that is worth.
As for my comments on your marriage, I guess I did a REALLY bad job here. When I was questioning your commitment (which I never had the right to do in the first place), it was when I thought your ex would only drink on occasion and come home late. Only later on, when you revealed all of the other problems, and the fact that he was lying about going for counseling, did I realize that you did do all that you could. But, again it's not my place to judge or comment. I need to learn that sometimes the best remedy is to say nothing.
And, as for me not responding on any other threads of yours, I'm probably going blind, because I truly didn't see you post any other threads, aside from this one and the marriage ones and the Vegas ones.
So, that's how I feel, it's the best I can do. Hopefully, you can look past my previous comments and we can move on from here.
Kristi, they say sometimes a guy needs a good kick in the a$$ to see when he is in the wrong. And that's exactly what happened here and quite frankly, I deserved all of your comments and more.
Like Boosh said, I am an extremely opinionated and up-front person and sometimes I give opinions when they are not needed, nor wanted. Unfortunately, it's a guy thing -- we feel the need to voice opinions, whereas, most of the times, all we need to do is listen.
Please accept my apology for any of my past comments that were personal, opinionated, judgemental or negative. I can assure you, I have nothing against you. As a matter of fact, you're alot better than other women I have seen go through what you are going through, so you have my respect and admiration, for what that is worth.
As for my comments on your marriage, I guess I did a REALLY bad job here. When I was questioning your commitment (which I never had the right to do in the first place), it was when I thought your ex would only drink on occasion and come home late. Only later on, when you revealed all of the other problems, and the fact that he was lying about going for counseling, did I realize that you did do all that you could. But, again it's not my place to judge or comment. I need to learn that sometimes the best remedy is to say nothing.
And, as for me not responding on any other threads of yours, I'm probably going blind, because I truly didn't see you post any other threads, aside from this one and the marriage ones and the Vegas ones.
So, that's how I feel, it's the best I can do. Hopefully, you can look past my previous comments and we can move on from here.
