KWR: would you say yes?

KWR: would you say yes?

so one of my FGs is receiving her first holy communion the week before the wedding. my godmother (her mom) emails me to see if we can make it. part of me wants to say yes, because it will give us a day off from worrying, another says no because i'll be too busy doing last minute stuff. what would you do?

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ehhh that's a tough one bc it's one of your FG's as opposed to like ... a non FG lol. If it were me I'd probably make the effort to go, at least for part of it.

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I would go. Even if you can't stay the whole time, just to show up for a bit shows that you atleast wanted to be there.

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I would go. You know far enough in advance that you can plan your last minute things around it.

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I would tell them that you would love to be there but right now you can't commit to anything that close to the wedding. Something along those lines.

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the only problem is its not like, at their house, where i could show up or not, they're having it at a hall and need a #. so i cant even say yes and then the day of decide.

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JMO but I would make an effort to go.

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I would try to go.

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Posted by Clover23

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Posted by jesca

the only problem is its not like, at their house, where i could show up or not, they're having it at a hall and need a #. so i cant even say yes and then the day of decide.

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can you just go to the church?

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yeah...just go to the church and take some pics and be out

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I would def go to the communion-even if its just the church part, ask her whens the latest that you can let her know about the hall because there maybe things that you need to do for the wedding.

a week before my wedding there was a huge snow storm-i was stuck at home and couldnt do anything even if i wanted(but there wasnt really much to do). it wasnt a big deal and the wedding went on.

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I would go

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I would go. It'll get your mind off the stress for a day, and like Colleen said, you have enough notice to plan.

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I would go it would be very special for you to be there for your FG

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I would just go, you have enough notice that you can plan to not do anything major wedding related that day, ya know?

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i would go

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I would go cause its one of your fgs

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Posted by jesca

UPDATE:

i emailed my godmother, i said we're 99% sure we'll be there and that i'll know better a little closer. apparently 'extended' family is not invited to the church, i was only told about the party afterwards

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ooohhh...yeah that makes sense the church usually only allows immediate family becasue it gets really crowded...id say go to the party and leave early if you have to