fh's aunt died this morning, being im getting married on valentine's day next year, do u think i should change my date or leave it as is. my mom says not to cuz his aunt wouldn't want us to change it. but just knowing next year will be a year she is dead, and having my wedding that day. i don't know its kind of weird. what do u ladies think.
rocketsummer17
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This is something that FH needs to make the decision on...I understand how the 'one year anniversary' would be hard, but I see how keeping it the same and not changing it would 'honor' his aunt...
little j
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i would ask FH and his family....im not sure what i would do....
SummerBride10
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I would definatly leave it up to your FH and his family. If anything, you can do something to honor his aunt's memory at the wedding.
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i agree wit the others about letting FH and his family decide on this
angelatp
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sorry I can't help either, it's really up to you and the family. Sorry for your loss I hope it works out.
KellyGirl 2010
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I am sooo sorry to hear that!! I think keeping the date would be ok, its a happy occation, you can remember her during the celebration!
Its still valentines day, you know!
You really have to talk to your FH
Good luck!
mosh424
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I agree with the other ladies, I say this is up to FH and his family
JoanneAndJustin
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I'm so sorry. My condolences
Like everyone else said let FH and his family decide.They might welcome replacing a sad occasion with a happy one.
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if fh is okay with having it this time next year.. go for it. His aunt would really probably not want you to change ur plans... it would be nice to do a a memoral candle for her or a prayer/reading in her remembrance if you are ok with that
I agree, talk to FH and his family. See what they think. If they are okay with keeping that date, you could honor her during ceremony with a memorial candle - a prayer - something like that. So sorry for your family's loss
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i would ask FH and his family....im not sure what i would do....
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i would ask FH and his family....im not sure what i would do....
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Im getting Married
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I agree with the others..give FH and his family time to think about it. Also I think doing some kind of memorial if you keep that date would be nice
