lap dances?

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Posted by GT143EA

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

but instead, mine got butt naked on stage at a strip club (montreal does weird stuff to their bachelors) so i was pretty upset about that... a bit worse than a lap dance imo lol

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WHAT!!!!!!!!!!???????? Thats crazy!!!!!!!!

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yep... his friends paid for them to drag him on stage (apparently this happens all the time in montreal)... so his friends all got an up close and personal view of his junk while he swung around the stripper pole ... and then he proceeded to get whipped by the dominatrixs on stage and then by some 2 random girls in the crowd.... and as soon as i come home from my trip thwe same weekend, he drops his pants to show me the marks... yeahhhh... i wasnt too happy

I have no problem with strip clubs but lap dancers are on my list of no-no's. IMO there's no reason or time that makes it ok to have a naked or even half naked woman that close to you.

FH knows how I feel about this so if he did it anyway there would be hell to pay. If you didn't let your FH know how you felt about lap dances prior to his bach. party then I don't think you can really get mad.

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by GT143EA

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

but instead, mine got butt naked on stage at a strip club (montreal does weird stuff to their bachelors) so i was pretty upset about that... a bit worse than a lap dance imo lol

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WHAT!!!!!!!!!!???????? Thats crazy!!!!!!!!

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yep... his friends paid for them to drag him on stage (apparently this happens all the time in montreal)... so his friends all got an up close and personal view of his junk while he swung around the stripper pole ... and then he proceeded to get whipped by the dominatrixs on stage and then by some 2 random girls in the crowd.... and as soon as i come home from my trip thwe same weekend, he drops his pants to show me the marks... yeahhhh... i wasnt too happy

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I would not be mad about the lap dance.

My FH is going to Montreal for his bach party too

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Posted by las1


I would not be mad about the lap dance.

My FH is going to Montreal for his bach party too

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Well, you are warned.., they take pride in humiliating their bachelors up there... I didnt know this... have been to montreal a few times... even went to a strip club there and it all seemed pretty tame... nope, i was wrong

no not at all.... My FH went to a strip club for his and got a lap dance and went on stage. Do i like the idea? No ... but its his bachlor party it doesnt make me trust him any less.. its not like he does it all the time.

Plus my friend got me a shirt made for mine.. and it said spank me.. so guys were spanking me all night lollllll


we both talked and said watever its our bachlor/bachlorette parties

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by GT143EA

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

but instead, mine got butt naked on stage at a strip club (montreal does weird stuff to their bachelors) so i was pretty upset about that... a bit worse than a lap dance imo lol

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WHAT!!!!!!!!!!???????? Thats crazy!!!!!!!!

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yep... his friends paid for them to drag him on stage (apparently this happens all the time in montreal)... so his friends all got an up close and personal view of his junk while he swung around the stripper pole ... and then he proceeded to get whipped by the dominatrixs on stage and then by some 2 random girls in the crowd.... and as soon as i come home from my trip thwe same weekend, he drops his pants to show me the marks... yeahhhh... i wasnt too happy

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GIIIINNNNAAAAAAAAAA ***!!!!!

That is insane Id be sooooo mad .... you must have wanted to kill him

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by GT143EA

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

but instead, mine got butt naked on stage at a strip club (montreal does weird stuff to their bachelors) so i was pretty upset about that... a bit worse than a lap dance imo lol

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WHAT!!!!!!!!!!???????? Thats crazy!!!!!!!!

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yep... his friends paid for them to drag him on stage (apparently this happens all the time in montreal)... so his friends all got an up close and personal view of his junk while he swung around the stripper pole ... and then he proceeded to get whipped by the dominatrixs on stage and then by some 2 random girls in the crowd.... and as soon as i come home from my trip thwe same weekend, he drops his pants to show me the marks... yeahhhh... i wasnt too happy

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wow I totaly know how you feel. The strippers pulled down my DHs pants and hit him with a belt and drew a heart on his @ss. It didnt stop there and I will NOT go any further bc it gets alot worse. And that was here in NY! It s*cks bc I was an angel at my b-party.

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Posted by bag19

i think its ok. but PRIVATE lap dances are a MAJOR NO NO!!!!!

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ITA!!!! I told FH that if there's a Champagne room in the vicinity of where they are or talks of a hotel room at all we're going to have some issues... I don't trust some of his friends and they can get him to do pretty stupid stuff when he's drunk. Luckily my MOH's hubby is a cop and he's in our bridal party, so he'll be my eyes and ears.

If it's a harmless lap dance, there's nothing to worry about!!

DH says that the strippers dont care about them...they just want their money and its their job.

When he went for his bach party- he got put on stage, got hit with a belt, and got a lap dance on stage with 2 girls. I was okay with it b/c its not like he does this on a regular basis... it was his bach party and having fun with his friends.

As for lap dances in the back room or hotel, ohhhhh noooo I would flip out! I feel like it gets taken to another level there.

As for me, I went to hunkamania that night for my bachelorette party and got thrown around like a rag doll and I loved it all lol!!! Men rubbing their 'junk' all up on me, meant nothing to me.... it was all fun!

We were open about it with each other so its not like we were hiding anything- I think thats what made it easier.