Last words

I do say it was blown way out of proportion. And a discussion that could have been over with quickly took way too long.

However, I was never offended by Bonnie's post, maybe because I got what she was trying to say without reading into it too much.

I have been a victim of the foot in your mouth syndrome in real life with my family numerous times and have hurt a lot of feelings along the way. As a result, I watch my words carefully. This is something that's learned from trial and error, trust me. My family would tell you that in the past I had no tact.

So this could have easily been me, which is why I understand.

Christine, you know I love you. And I am glad you understand and accepted the apology, even if it was a little late.

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by ChristineAE

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Ok Christine, I was posting my opinion. There is no need to yell by using all caps. We understand where you are coming from. 9/11 affected us ALL. Let's try to keep everything in perspective.

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Thanks for the but I didn't use Caps at all.

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Posted by ChristineAE

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by ChristineAE

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Ok Christine, I was posting my opinion. There is no need to yell by using all caps. We understand where you are coming from. 9/11 affected us ALL. Let's try to keep everything in perspective.

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Thanks for the but I didn't use Caps at all.

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That's so funny, you deleted the post that had the caps,

pretty sneaky

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Who are we to say what is untrue or not, It was her opinion. That's what opinions are all about, some people will agree, some people will not, that's life

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well- I don't think it's true- and to post something like that without facts is not merely opinion- but a lie

needless to say it was a very irresponisble thing to post - and given the nature of the thread it was sure to start a comotion!

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by ChristineAE

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by ChristineAE

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Ok Christine, I was posting my opinion. There is no need to yell by using all caps. We understand where you are coming from. 9/11 affected us ALL. Let's try to keep everything in perspective.

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Thanks for the but I didn't use Caps at all.

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That's so funny, you deleted the post that had the caps,

pretty sneaky

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You're effing kidding me right?

I started the post, and then deleted it one micro-second later, thinking better of it and to end this and not take anything out on you, but now I'm starting to see your intentions.

You must love the name calling.

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by JessicaM.

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Posted by stephanief

IMO, I do not think you should let these 'bullies' (that is how some of you girls are acting) convince you to leave this site. This site is for everyone, not just the poeple who's opinions we agree with. This is really sad that a lot of girls on here have this 'pack mentality' and get involved in conversations that should have been handled by you and Christine. Well, whatever you decide, I wish you luck. Have a great wedding.

I am kinda disguisted by the way some of you girls have acted....JMHO

Everyone, concentrate of planning your wedding and not all this other high school crap

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I am really not a fan of name calling at all. people were angry, and sometimes they say things while they are angry. I don't think that is bullying. it just escalated and went somewhere it probably shouldn't have, but it is also partially b/c when Ember could have apologized and doused the fires with water...she got defensive and poured gasoline.

YOUR comments, especially the name calling, could have also been sent via forum mail to Bonnie, as I am sure you are aware your comments could cause more drama on this board.

we should ALL try to be mindful of what we say and how we say it...and try not to throw bricks at glass houses. that jMo....

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I'm sorry I do not understand your post. By name calling are you referring to when I said you girls were acting like bullies? I'm sorry but that is what it seemed like when I read all the posts. Just want to say that I do not agree with alot of things that are said on this board but I do not start a thread about them. I think we are taking the focus off what this board is all about....weddings, fun times, being around people you love. Let's everyone try to stay focused and grounded.....JMHO

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yes, I am referring EXACTLY to that...and also the reference to 'pack mentality' just unnecessary to say. did some people get NASTY...yes, did I think she meant something other than what she POSTED, yes (and I stated that), but facts are it got escalated from ALL sides....

it's over. it's done. she apololized. life and wedding planning will continue.

Guys....stop this!

Please!!!

06 board Rocks....not 06 Drama!!!

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Posted by Beth1210

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Who are we to say what is untrue or not, It was her opinion. That's what opinions are all about, some people will agree, some people will not, that's life

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well- I don't think it's true- and to post something like that without facts is not merely opinion- but a lie

needless to say it was a very irresponisble thing to post - and given the nature of the thread it was sure to start a comotion!

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Ok, you girls are right and anyone who disagrees is wrong....... Is that the way this board is gonna work now? I'm getting annoyed, I wish I never posted anything. I just should have let you run Bonnie off this site and pretended that was an 'ok' thing to do. I'm sorry I ever said anything. Next post........

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Posted by DCSAAB06

Guys....stop this!

Please!!!

06 board Rocks....not 06 Drama!!!

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sorry Deb. you're right.

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Posted by JessicaM.

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by JessicaM.

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Posted by stephanief

IMO, I do not think you should let these 'bullies' (that is how some of you girls are acting) convince you to leave this site. This site is for everyone, not just the poeple who's opinions we agree with. This is really sad that a lot of girls on here have this 'pack mentality' and get involved in conversations that should have been handled by you and Christine. Well, whatever you decide, I wish you luck. Have a great wedding.

I am kinda disguisted by the way some of you girls have acted....JMHO

Everyone, concentrate of planning your wedding and not all this other high school crap

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I am really not a fan of name calling at all. people were angry, and sometimes they say things while they are angry. I don't think that is bullying. it just escalated and went somewhere it probably shouldn't have, but it is also partially b/c when Ember could have apologized and doused the fires with water...she got defensive and poured gasoline.

YOUR comments, especially the name calling, could have also been sent via forum mail to Bonnie, as I am sure you are aware your comments could cause more drama on this board.

we should ALL try to be mindful of what we say and how we say it...and try not to throw bricks at glass houses. that jMo....

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I'm sorry I do not understand your post. By name calling are you referring to when I said you girls were acting like bullies? I'm sorry but that is what it seemed like when I read all the posts. Just want to say that I do not agree with alot of things that are said on this board but I do not start a thread about them. I think we are taking the focus off what this board is all about....weddings, fun times, being around people you love. Let's everyone try to stay focused and grounded.....JMHO

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yes, I am referring EXACTLY to that...and also the reference to 'pack mentality' just unnecessary to say. did some people get NASTY...yes, did I think she meant something other than what she POSTED, yes (and I stated that), but facts are it got escalated from ALL sides....

it's over. it's done. she apololized. life and wedding planning will continue.

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GO back and read the thread and tell me that there was not some 'pack mentatlity' going on, that is EXACTLY what happened (it is FUN to write in all caps)....ok game over, next topic, please

a few girls were considering leaving after reading her post- Christine and I got them to stay

why are they less important then her-

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Posted by Beth1210

a few girls were considering leaving after reading her post- Christine and I got them to stay

why are they less important then her-

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give me a break, so you'll push one girl out?(the one that has a different opinion that the Popular opinion), yup, just like high school

I think if someone wants to leave the boards becasue of something someone else said, then that is their perogative. I am done with this topic, it is still running out of control.

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Posted by CKJ906

Girls enough already. It looks like everyone is just trying to start a fight now. Just drop it all already!

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agreed

No one is less important than anyone else here!!

And why was I the only one to try to see both sides of the story!!!!

Maybe this is why I keep ending up on jury duty!!!

Ok that's it I'm off my soapbox and my high horse. I think everyone should get off theirs too and end this crap once and for all.

It's over..stop kicking the damned dead horse already, it's really freaking annoying!!

who asked her to leave?? not I or Christine or anyone

she choose to -

good thing I don't work past 5-

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Posted by Beth1210

who asked her to leave?? not I or Christine or anyone

she choose to -

good thing I don't work past 5-

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What does that mean? You see, I say something you don't like, and you get nasty...ugh

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Posted by BKtoLI

No one is less important than anyone else here!!

And why was I the only one to try to see both sides of the story!!!!

Maybe this is why I keep ending up on jury duty!!!

Ok that's it I'm off my soapbox and my high horse. I think everyone should get off theirs too and end this crap once and for all.

It's over..stop kicking the damned dead horse already, it's really freaking annoying!!

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I saw both sides as well. I was trying to make some peace and it backfired so F**k it !!!!

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Posted by MayBride06

Where's Menudo when you need them!!

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