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Latin Wedding Traditions

Sunshine2815 Posted:

Latin Wedding Traditions

I need help from all my Latina brides......What traditions will you be doing for your wedding? I honestly wasn't even aware of certain things until the other day.

Please let me know!

Thanks!
Cataverri Posted:

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Traditions??????? Like what?

VCanizalez Posted:

Re: Latin Wedding Traditions

Traditions????





Spanish ppl dont even get the big wedding like we do...

they just get pregnant n move in with the guy...
NOT ALL OF THEm but Most of them...
Sunshine2815 Posted:

Re: Latin Wedding Traditions


Posted by VCanizalez

Traditions????





Spanish ppl dont even get the big wedding like we do...

they just get pregnant n move in with the guy...
NOT ALL OF THEm but Most of them...




You are so right!!!!!

But this is what I heard about:
Lazo - Lasso
A lazo (lasso), is a large rosary, a ribbon or a decorated cord that is symbolically draped around the neckss or shoulders of the bride and the groom, groom first. It is placed in a horizontal figure eight (infinity) while they are kneeling at the altar, to affirm their union and their committment to always be together side-by-side. The lazo is associated with a wedding prayer and takes place during the ceremony, after the bride and groom have exchanged their vows. Optionally, the lazo may be tied around their wrists.
The couple wears the lasso throughout the remainder of the service.
At the end of the ceremony, the lasso is removed and is given to the Bride as a keepsake.
Though not a Latin country, a wedding ceremony in New Zealand features the Infinity Loops (Lasso) placed around the necks of the bride and the groom, to symbolize their never-ending love.

Arras - Thirteen gold coins
The groom gives the bride thirteen gold coins blessed by the priest. The 13 coins represent the Christ and his 12 apostles. The Arras is given to the bride as a symbol of the unquestionable trust and confidence the groom has in her.
Most often, he presents them in an ornate box, a silver or gold jewelry box, or on a siver or gold gift tray.
Doing so, he also pledges to be a good provider and to support and care for his bride as she becomes his wife.
By accepting thes arras, the bride pronounces her unconditional trust and confidence in her groom.
These coins become a part of their family heirloom.
VCanizalez Posted:

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OHHH Ok

So we are talking about the Catholic Traditions!!!!

GOT IT!

=)

Yep


Exchange of Vows
Blessing & Exchange of Rings
Offering of the Coins
Unity of Lasso
Lighting of Candle
Roses For La Virgen De Guadalupe
Cataverri Posted:

Re: Latin Wedding Traditions


Posted by Sunshine2815


Posted by VCanizalez

Traditions????





Spanish ppl dont even get the big wedding like we do...

they just get pregnant n move in with the guy...
NOT ALL OF THEm but Most of them...




You are so right!!!!!

But this is what I heard about:
Lazo - Lasso
A lazo (lasso), is a large rosary, a ribbon or a decorated cord that is symbolically draped around the neckss or shoulders of the bride and the groom, groom first. It is placed in a horizontal figure eight (infinity) while they are kneeling at the altar, to affirm their union and their committment to always be together side-by-side. The lazo is associated with a wedding prayer and takes place during the ceremony, after the bride and groom have exchanged their vows. Optionally, the lazo may be tied around their wrists.
The couple wears the lasso throughout the remainder of the service.
At the end of the ceremony, the lasso is removed and is given to the Bride as a keepsake.
Though not a Latin country, a wedding ceremony in New Zealand features the Infinity Loops (Lasso) placed around the necks of the bride and the groom, to symbolize their never-ending love.

Arras - Thirteen gold coins
The groom gives the bride thirteen gold coins blessed by the priest. The 13 coins represent the Christ and his 12 apostles. The Arras is given to the bride as a symbol of the unquestionable trust and confidence the groom has in her.
Most often, he presents them in an ornate box, a silver or gold jewelry box, or on a siver or gold gift tray.
Doing so, he also pledges to be a good provider and to support and care for his bride as she becomes his wife.
By accepting thes arras, the bride pronounces her unconditional trust and confidence in her groom.
These coins become a part of their family heirloom.



I think I've seen the Lazo...didnt do it. I keep it really simply I didnt even do a bouquet toss and everyone asked why I didnt....I just dont see the point bc I dont believe in that crap.

I just gave flowers to 'la virgen'.
Tomsbride Posted:

Re: Latin Wedding Traditions


Posted by VCanizalez

Traditions????





Spanish ppl dont even get the big wedding like we do...

they just get pregnant n move in with the guy...
NOT ALL OF THEm but Most of them...





Way to promote stereotypes V!
Tomsbride Posted:

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For the ceremony you can do the lazo or exchange of coins. You can also chose to wear a mantilla veil.

For the party you can have traditional music/food. What nationality? If you're mexican you can have a Mariachi Band or if you'r spanish Flamenco dancers.

You can also think of a creative favor or serve Tres Leche cake.
Tomsbride Posted:

Re: Latin Wedding Traditions


Posted by Cataverri


Posted by Sunshine2815


Posted by VCanizalez

Traditions????





Spanish ppl dont even get the big wedding like we do...

they just get pregnant n move in with the guy...
NOT ALL OF THEm but Most of them...




You are so right!!!!!

But this is what I heard about:
Lazo - Lasso
A lazo (lasso), is a large rosary, a ribbon or a decorated cord that is symbolically draped around the neckss or shoulders of the bride and the groom, groom first. It is placed in a horizontal figure eight (infinity) while they are kneeling at the altar, to affirm their union and their committment to always be together side-by-side. The lazo is associated with a wedding prayer and takes place during the ceremony, after the bride and groom have exchanged their vows. Optionally, the lazo may be tied around their wrists.
The couple wears the lasso throughout the remainder of the service.
At the end of the ceremony, the lasso is removed and is given to the Bride as a keepsake.
Though not a Latin country, a wedding ceremony in New Zealand features the Infinity Loops (Lasso) placed around the necks of the bride and the groom, to symbolize their never-ending love.

Arras - Thirteen gold coins
The groom gives the bride thirteen gold coins blessed by the priest. The 13 coins represent the Christ and his 12 apostles. The Arras is given to the bride as a symbol of the unquestionable trust and confidence the groom has in her.
Most often, he presents them in an ornate box, a silver or gold jewelry box, or on a siver or gold gift tray.
Doing so, he also pledges to be a good provider and to support and care for his bride as she becomes his wife.
By accepting thes arras, the bride pronounces her unconditional trust and confidence in her groom.
These coins become a part of their family heirloom.



I think I've seen the Lazo...didnt do it. I keep it really simply I didnt even do a bouquet toss and everyone asked why I didnt....I just dont see the point bc I dont believe in that crap.

I just gave flowers to 'la virgen'.



Oh THIS too! We are having all the kids in the wedding bring flower to the virgin mary during Ave Maria
JandS Posted:

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We're doing the lasso

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

Re: Latin Wedding Traditions


Posted by Tomsbride


Posted by Cataverri


Posted by Sunshine2815


Posted by VCanizalez

Traditions????





Spanish ppl dont even get the big wedding like we do...

they just get pregnant n move in with the guy...
NOT ALL OF THEm but Most of them...




You are so right!!!!!

But this is what I heard about:
Lazo - Lasso
A lazo (lasso), is a large rosary, a ribbon or a decorated cord that is symbolically draped around the neckss or shoulders of the bride and the groom, groom first. It is placed in a horizontal figure eight (infinity) while they are kneeling at the altar, to affirm their union and their committment to always be together side-by-side. The lazo is associated with a wedding prayer and takes place during the ceremony, after the bride and groom have exchanged their vows. Optionally, the lazo may be tied around their wrists.
The couple wears the lasso throughout the remainder of the service.
At the end of the ceremony, the lasso is removed and is given to the Bride as a keepsake.
Though not a Latin country, a wedding ceremony in New Zealand features the Infinity Loops (Lasso) placed around the necks of the bride and the groom, to symbolize their never-ending love.

Arras - Thirteen gold coins
The groom gives the bride thirteen gold coins blessed by the priest. The 13 coins represent the Christ and his 12 apostles. The Arras is given to the bride as a symbol of the unquestionable trust and confidence the groom has in her.
Most often, he presents them in an ornate box, a silver or gold jewelry box, or on a siver or gold gift tray.
Doing so, he also pledges to be a good provider and to support and care for his bride as she becomes his wife.
By accepting thes arras, the bride pronounces her unconditional trust and confidence in her groom.
These coins become a part of their family heirloom.



I think I've seen the Lazo...didnt do it. I keep it really simply I didnt even do a bouquet toss and everyone asked why I didnt....I just dont see the point bc I dont believe in that crap.

I just gave flowers to 'la virgen'.



Oh THIS too! We are having all the kids in the wedding bring flower to the virgin mary during Ave Maria



Cool idea...
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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V - you are right though.. My friend told me yesterday that my FH and I are the only couple that they know that is having a wedding instead of a baby shower......... SMH

InLuvWithMyBF Posted:

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I have heard of the lazo...not sure if i willbe doing this yet. Anthony is Italian and greek and I'm Ecuadorian so we are doing diffeent traditions. We are doing the offering to Virgin Mary and we arre also havina set of godparents.

VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

V - you are right though.. My friend told me yesterday that my FH and I are the only couple that they know that is having a wedding instead of a baby shower......... SMH

Yeah Its a shame.... but this is jhow Spanish ppl are!!!


Shoot

YOu should Seen MY PARENTS n Luis' Mom Reaction when we told them We are Engaged!!! LOL

'OMG YOU ARE PREGNANT!'

I Laugh n got Mad right away!!!!!!!

Sunshine2815 Posted:

Re: Latin Wedding Traditions


Posted by VCanizalez


Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

V - you are right though.. My friend told me yesterday that my FH and I are the only couple that they know that is having a wedding instead of a baby shower......... SMH

Yeah Its a shame.... but this is jhow Spanish ppl are!!!


Shoot

YOu should Seen MY PARENTS n Luis' Mom Reaction when we told them We are Engaged!!! LOL

'OMG YOU ARE PREGNANT!'

I Laugh n got Mad right away!!!!!!!




Sad but true......I'm glad I'm doing things a little different in my family. My fiance and I are both Dominican.
sujeire Posted:

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I did the Unity Candle and instead of giving flowers to La Virgen, we each gave a rose to our mothers instead during the ceremony.

VCanizalez Posted:

Re: Latin Wedding Traditions


Posted by Sunshine2815


Posted by VCanizalez


Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

V - you are right though.. My friend told me yesterday that my FH and I are the only couple that they know that is having a wedding instead of a baby shower......... SMH

Yeah Its a shame.... but this is jhow Spanish ppl are!!!


Shoot

YOu should Seen MY PARENTS n Luis' Mom Reaction when we told them We are Engaged!!! LOL

'OMG YOU ARE PREGNANT!'

I Laugh n got Mad right away!!!!!!!




Sad but true......I'm glad I'm doing things a little different in my family. My fiance and I are both Dominican.



Yup...
We are doing things different too,...
Not kids as of right now...
Most hispanic ppl ASSUME right away since we got 'engaged' we are living together n I AM PREGNANT!!!! I HATE IT!!!

I hate when ppl already Assume I am marrying Luis bc IM PREGNANT!
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Not that anything is wrong with that but yea times are changing, sadly.

To be 31 and no kids is rare - for both of us too.
pixietina Posted:

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Posted by VCanizalez

Traditions????





Spanish ppl dont even get the big wedding like we do...

they just get pregnant n move in with the guy...
NOT ALL OF THEm but Most of them...



Crashing! This is sooo true! Either that or the weddings look like a prom or sweet 16.

BTW Disclaimer: I am spanish too so I feel confident in saying this.
Lana and Johan Posted:

Re: Latin Wedding Traditions


Posted by VCanizalez

Traditions????





Spanish ppl dont even get the big wedding like we do...

they just get pregnant n move in with the guy...
NOT ALL OF THEm but Most of them...



V, you are too much
FH and I had this same discussion yesterday.

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