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let him see me before the ceremony?

kikiann512 Posted:

let him see me before the ceremony?

LBUDA Posted:

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Def not!!

MarryingMyBFF1110 Posted:

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I am..but it's going to be set up by the photog - it'll be a big reveal captured on film (photo and video). I'm spending too much money on this wedding and want to go to my cocktail hr!!!
My marriage will not be doomed bc he saw me a couple of hours before we sign the certificate
AngnShaun Posted:

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i didnt but if you want to its totally fine... your marriage wont be doomed if you do!

jbara79 Posted:

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Me and my fiance are seeing each other before the ceremony so we can get photos out of the way so we can enjoy the cocktail hour food. We paid alot of money not to be able to enjoy what everyone else is enjoying.

LyssaK Posted:

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Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

I am..but it's going to be set up by the photog - it'll be a big reveal captured on film (photo and video). I'm spending too much money on this wedding and want to go to my cocktail hr!!!
My marriage will not be doomed bc he saw me a couple of hours before we sign the certificate



THIS .. ABSOLUTELY THIS!
Jenn7982 Posted:

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i'm not, but i have 4 hours between my church and cocktail hour. so we have plenty of time for pics later on

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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I got married at the RH so we didn't have any time between the ceremony and CH (and there was no way i was missing CH!). So we took pictures prior to the ceremony .... it was fine and we had more time to enjoy ourselves after without posing
deeda1129 Posted:

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Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

I am..but it's going to be set up by the photog - it'll be a big reveal captured on film (photo and video). I'm spending too much money on this wedding and want to go to my cocktail hr!!!
My marriage will not be doomed bc he saw me a couple of hours before we sign the certificate



oohh i like this idea
barbtony Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

I got married at the RH so we didn't have any time between the ceremony and CH (and there was no way i was missing CH!). So we took pictures prior to the ceremony .... it was fine and we had more time to enjoy ourselves after without posing



ditto
Lisalana Posted:

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we had a private and intimate reveal before the ceremony, captured by only the photog and videog. i am SO glad i made that decision. we just watched our video last night and the emotion from that moment is amazing. it was such an intimate moment, that i have absolutely no regrets about doing it that way.

MrsJPH2012 Posted:

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I think if my wedding was later in the day I may consider it, but since I'm having a day wedding and there is no way we're getting pictures done before the ceremony, I'd rather be traditional and have that look on his face while watching down the aisle.

Jill52787 Posted:

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Posted by jbara79

Me and my fiance are seeing each other before the ceremony so we can get photos out of the way so we can enjoy the cocktail hour food. We paid alot of money not to be able to enjoy what everyone else is enjoying.



THIS! We are going to do a private, photographed first sight so we can party during cocktail hour!
CrazyLove11 Posted:

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This is one tradition we will not break. And we ae getting married at the RH .... We extended our cocktail hour so we can make sure we get there and will do just a few full group shots and couple shots after the ceremony. All the separate girls and guy shots will be done before. Its a personal decision..... I think there is more of a wow factor when he sees me walking down the aisle than any staged reveal. Just my opinion!
meghan13 Posted:

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nope. I never even considered letting him see me.

midnight26 Posted:

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I want to take pictures before, and not miss our cocktail hour...there's no time in between since we're getting married at the place. So he'll see me!

StephanieJoy Posted:

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we are thinking of doing some of or pic b4 the CH. I want to go to my CH

JAAMS Posted:

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We were going to....but then we changed our minds. I'm so glad that we did...because I really loved seeing him for the first time that day as I walked down the aisle with my Dad.

It was also fun because we were all staying in the same hotel...just down the hall from each other, so the bridal parties were running interference all morning to keep us away from each other

That being said, I don't think it's bad luck or anything to see each other beforehand.
Katswedding11 Posted:

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hmmmm not sure

lisam1113 Posted:

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Posted by CrazyLove11

This is one tradition we will not break. And we ae getting married at the RH .... We extended our cocktail hour so we can make sure we get there and will do just a few full group shots and couple shots after the ceremony. All the separate girls and guy shots will be done before. Its a personal decision..... I think there is more of a wow factor when he sees me walking down the aisle than any staged reveal. Just my opinion!



ITA with this!!!!!

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