Let it out....

Ok ladies.. some of our brides are married already and the rest of us are getting closer and closer to our wedding days!!! SO EXCITING!!!!!! The time approaching not only brings happiness and excitement but also stress... We all know that stress is so not good so... lets have a venting session! Anything or everything that is bothering you LET IT OUT!!!! you will feel better!!! <3 you all!



I'll go first! We found the invites that we love and they are $$$$$ So im really pissed about that! Not sure what to do but I really want them!

Our HM is totally up in the air right now and we have to wait to plan it

I feel like I have done SO MUCH and yet when I look at the checklist theres a million more things to do still lol!

I can't find a DAMN BRACELET!!!!!!!!!!

ok Im done now haha!

I hope everything works out okay, Michelle!

My main vent is that I've been watching what I eat + exercising and I can't seem to go down in as much weight as I wanted to - although I feel more toned. I guess that counts.

I'm worried people will think our wedding is not beautiful, or that the vision I have will not go through. Or that people will complain it's too far too travel.

I have to go away for work in 2 weeks and will be away from FH for about 4 days - we've never been a day away from each other since we met :(

That's all I have for now.

ohhh this is a good one...


ok... I am stressed out because I have to finish paying off the entire wedding and its only 5 months away with alot more to do.


I have to buy a new car in the midst of this stress, as well as find an apartment otherwise FH and I will be living at separate houses with our parents after we're married :)

Everything I envisioned cost me alot of money and now I am paying for it!



whew.. that felt good

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Posted by FutureMrsGee

ohhh this is a good one...


ok... I am stressed out because I have to finish paying off the entire wedding and its only 5 months away with alot more to do.


I have to buy a new car in the midst of this stress, as well as find an apartment otherwise FH and I will be living at separate houses with our parents after we're married :)

Everything I envisioned cost me alot of money and now I am paying for it!



whew.. that felt good

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Yay glad you feel better and dont worry everything will work out!

I have so many things to think about from menus, to must take pictures, to how im wearing my hair ect that its making me nuts

$$$$$$$$$$$$


The fact that I might not be taking a HM for months after the wedding

the fact that I still have no where to live yet and I can tthink about that till after the wedding

my shower is a complete stress fest for me right now especially since I didnt have any type of say


Dave still doesnt have a great job after being laid off 2 years ago.

no DOJ

BM dresses still not in

bridesmaid dresses are stressing me out!! i have girls of all different sizes in my party and I know i'm going to have problems with some of them.

I've been working an extra job as a waitress to pay for our wedding, and every night i have to go in i get in a bad mood because i HATE the job!! Not to mention, the place has been slow lately and it's stressing me out that I'm not making enough money! i feel like i will come up short by november!

I feel like i have so much to do, not enough money to start certain projects, and i'm starting to feel like i'll never get it all done! I've been putting things aside just because I don't know how to begin... ahhh i guess that's it... for now

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Posted by kimmaymb20

I have so many things to think about from menus, to must take pictures, to how im wearing my hair ect that its making me nuts

$$$$$$$$$$$$


The fact that I might not be taking a HM for months after the wedding

the fact that I still have no where to live yet and I can tthink about that till after the wedding

my shower is a complete stress fest for me right now especially since I didnt have any type of say


Dave still doesnt have a great job after being laid off 2 years ago.

no DOJ

BM dresses still not in

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Im here if you need anything!!!

I hope everything works out sexy!


....
I think i have NO TIME and YET I am missin so much...
Because of my All inclusive package i have to wait 1-2 months until we start getting into bussiness!.. whcih is stressing me completely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Also, We are trying to come back with the budget for Photobooth, we soooo love them and want One for our RH!!!!!!!! We think our guest will love it!!!!
Plus, this will be our favor + chocolate/candy... But we need the $ first for that...


We have to book the HM... I am soo stressing out bc Luis only has off ONE day a week and it is so hard to get Time for us and Time for the wedding in THAT Only day!!!!!!!!!!!


I am so scared of asking Someone else to be my Bridesmaid!!!!!!!! Remember all the horrible experience i have had? I am scared now... .

The fact FH and I dont live togehte NOW it is pissing me off bc We got NO ROOM!!!
He rents a room and I live in a Room tooo!!!!!!!
So we want to go adn start buyin things for the wedding but NO ROOM!!!!!!!!!!


The fact that I think Not so many people will come to my Brida shower bc so many hispanic ppl dont get the poin of it!!!! they will bring nothing for us... and I think Luis's family will NO come!!!! Since they live in NJ/PA... i dont think they will drive 1-2hrs just for an Event for ME... (i dont think his family 'loves' me that much....)...

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Posted by Jenn7982

bridesmaid dresses are stressing me out!! i have girls of all different sizes in my party and I know i'm going to have problems with some of them.

I've been working an extra job as a waitress to pay for our wedding, and every night i have to go in i get in a bad mood because i HATE the job!! Not to mention, the place has been slow lately and it's stressing me out that I'm not making enough money! i feel like i will come up short by november!

I feel like i have so much to do, not enough money to start certain projects, and i'm starting to feel like i'll never get it all done! I've been putting things aside just because I don't know how to begin... ahhh i guess that's it... for now

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=-( Sorry chica....
I hope everything turns out good with ur second job for the $...

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Posted by FutureMrsGee

thanks michelle for writing this, this is making everyone let out all their stress and even see that they are not going in this alone. Alot of people are in the same boat.

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Yes Mami...
Thank you SOOO much!
Love this Michelle...
Feels good to Vent! & to know I am not the only one.

I know its hard to vent to other people sometimes and we all understand each other and wedding stress.. Its better to let it out here since we might be able to help each other!

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Posted by DCgirl82

Ok ladies.. some of our brides are married already and the rest of us are getting closer and closer to our wedding days!!! SO EXCITING!!!!!! The time approaching not only brings happiness and excitement but also stress... We all know that stress is so not good so... lets have a venting session! Anything or everything that is bothering you LET IT OUT!!!! you will feel better!!! <3 you all!



I'll go first! We found the invites that we love and they are $$$$$ So im really pissed about that! Not sure what to do but I really want them!

Our HM is totally up in the air right now and we have to wait to plan it

I feel like I have done SO MUCH and yet when I look at the checklist theres a million more things to do still lol!

I can't find a DAMN BRACELET!!!!!!!!!!

ok Im done now haha!

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I'm having the same issues as you minus the bracelet an my list feels like it's growing instead of minimizing ughh and why does it all have to be so expensive

$$$$$$$

FH came up to me last night and handed me index cards and told me to write down everything I buy and the price. We're going to keep track for a month. I flipped out because of it. He has done NOTHING for this wedding and when i bring up wedding stuff he gets so defensive. SO everything is on me to book/buy etc. then he yells that I'm spending too much money. Maybe he should start negotiating things UGH! Also, I have student loans that he keeps telling me to pay off before I start buying things! I don't think he understands and it's really pissing me off~!!~

ETA: I wanted to get married in 2012 so we'd be prepared financially. We just bought a house in June. He's the one that made me push it up to this year and left me to plan a wedding in less than a year!~

Right now it is a $$ thing. We have so much left to pay off, I know if the end everything will fall into place but it's just frustrating

I need to find a car

the only thing driving me crazy right now is invitations. i really wanted something a little different and outside the box so i searched etsy and found 2 different designs that i absolutely love and i love the prices even more anyway one of them i ordered a sample (it only cost me $3 with shipping) but she never sent it!! i've tried contacting her and she just tells me it was sent out - well i never got it and the other seller i emailed her and she said she would set up a reseved listing for me to order a sample (this is was before christmas) and she never got back to me and just ignores my emails following up, seriously im starting to take it personal, like why dont these women want my money?

its just really weird because i've ordered other things from etsy and have had great experiences. my mom just wants me to forget etsy and go to a standard invitation shop but i know if i find something similar to what i want i'll never get it for near the same cost so yea thats frustrating

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Posted by Jenn7982

just when we feel like we are alone....we're all in this together!

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Exactly!!!

i'm being a big baby and won't call the B&B i want to stay in the night before the wedding. my reason? i'm afraid they'll say we have to stay for 2 nights...and that would burst my bubble. right now i'm living in my little dream world and if i call and get news i don't like, i'll be devastated.

i'm such an ostrich sticking my big head in the sand and avoiding it lol

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Posted by Bree71584

the only thing driving me crazy right now is invitations. i really wanted something a little different and outside the box so i searched etsy and found 2 different designs that i absolutely love and i love the prices even more anyway one of them i ordered a sample (it only cost me $3 with shipping) but she never sent it!! i've tried contacting her and she just tells me it was sent out - well i never got it and the other seller i emailed her and she said she would set up a reseved listing for me to order a sample (this is was before christmas) and she never got back to me and just ignores my emails following up, seriously im starting to take it personal, like why dont these women want my money?

its just really weird because i've ordered other things from etsy and have had great experiences. my mom just wants me to forget etsy and go to a standard invitation shop but i know if i find something similar to what i want i'll never get it for near the same cost so yea thats frustrating

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ahhh I posted an etsy vent the other day and I have the sammme complaints!!!! I ordered invite samples from three diff sellers. I only recieved one so far and the others are not even shipped yet. I tried contacting the seller and she didn't respond for several days, responded this weekend saying she will ship it priority right away and it's still not shipped...

I am definitely not ordering from this seller but I ordered three invite samples from her... that's 12 bucks not counting shipping.