Let it out....

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Posted by Bree71584

the only thing driving me crazy right now is invitations. i really wanted something a little different and outside the box so i searched etsy and found 2 different designs that i absolutely love and i love the prices even more anyway one of them i ordered a sample (it only cost me $3 with shipping) but she never sent it!! i've tried contacting her and she just tells me it was sent out - well i never got it and the other seller i emailed her and she said she would set up a reseved listing for me to order a sample (this is was before christmas) and she never got back to me and just ignores my emails following up, seriously im starting to take it personal, like why dont these women want my money?

its just really weird because i've ordered other things from etsy and have had great experiences. my mom just wants me to forget etsy and go to a standard invitation shop but i know if i find something similar to what i want i'll never get it for near the same cost so yea thats frustrating

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ugh, my biggest pet peeve. why should we be hunting down vendors? i'm pretty sure the economy hasn't fully recovered- don't they want our money?

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Posted by futurestevens

i'm being a big baby and won't call the B&B i want to stay in the night before the wedding. my reason? i'm afraid they'll say we have to stay for 2 nights...and that would burst my bubble. right now i'm living in my little dream world and if i call and get news i don't like, i'll be devastated.

i'm such an ostrich sticking my big head in the sand and avoiding it lol

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I loooooove youuuuuuuuuuu

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Posted by DCgirl82

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Posted by futurestevens

i'm being a big baby and won't call the B&B i want to stay in the night before the wedding. my reason? i'm afraid they'll say we have to stay for 2 nights...and that would burst my bubble. right now i'm living in my little dream world and if i call and get news i don't like, i'll be devastated.

i'm such an ostrich sticking my big head in the sand and avoiding it lol

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I loooooove youuuuuuuuuuu

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haha cause i'm such a big baby? lol

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Posted by futurestevens

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Posted by DCgirl82

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Posted by futurestevens

i'm being a big baby and won't call the B&B i want to stay in the night before the wedding. my reason? i'm afraid they'll say we have to stay for 2 nights...and that would burst my bubble. right now i'm living in my little dream world and if i call and get news i don't like, i'll be devastated.

i'm such an ostrich sticking my big head in the sand and avoiding it lol

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I loooooove youuuuuuuuuuu

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haha cause i'm such a big baby? lol

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'i'm such an ostrich sticking my big head in the sand and avoiding it lol'

This ^^^

You are so cute!!!! Want me to call for you?

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Posted by DCgirl82

'i'm such an ostrich sticking my big head in the sand and avoiding it lol'

This ^^^

You are so cute!!!! Want me to call for you?

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i am such an ostrich! it's so much better living in my dream world where i haven't faced rejection yet haha

i have serious issues.

omg you are the sweetest thing ever. i think i'm going to call them this weekend though. i need to be a big girl lol

its so nice to read all of this... this whole process can really seem overwhelming
i guess i am stressed STILL with the timeline of when to start hair/makeup-
i am nervous people won't dance and will think my wedding isnt as over the top as some other ones.... but honestly FH and I both have our own mortgages to pay so we really are having a hard time paying for a wedding- we are trying to sell his place but its a hard time to sell...
i am stressed about a veil and hair clip- i need to just get my arse to barrons and start looking....
but most importantly i get stressed about my parents- my mom is ill and down to a mere 78 pounds... i worry she won't see my wedding....


sorry for the big vent...

$$$$ is always a big concern...everything costs so much and we still have so much to pay for.

my other big peeve of the moment which some of you may have already read about... i dished out so much money to go to other people's B=Parties and now they are giving me crap about maybe not coming because its too much money. newsflash! my B-Party will be less than what I spent on you, so i don't want to hear it and you better some and spend on me what I spent on you!

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Posted by smilie

but most importantly i get stressed about my parents- my mom is ill and down to a mere 78 pounds... i worry she won't see my wedding....

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and for your mom

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Posted by smilie

its so nice to read all of this... this whole process can really seem overwhelming
i guess i am stressed STILL with the timeline of when to start hair/makeup-
i am nervous people won't dance and will think my wedding isnt as over the top as some other ones.... but honestly FH and I both have our own mortgages to pay so we really are having a hard time paying for a wedding- we are trying to sell his place but its a hard time to sell...
i am stressed about a veil and hair clip- i need to just get my arse to barrons and start looking....
but most importantly i get stressed about my parents- my mom is ill and down to a mere 78 pounds... i worry she won't see my wedding....


sorry for the big vent...

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deciding on our HM!!!!! stressful because of work and time off...this should be stressful!!!

worrying we wont have enough$$$ for everything !!!

I am just stressed in general...I cant put a finger on something specific I just feel stressed..

I feel like I have so many little things left to do..but I cant start them until other things are done...like making my menus and programs

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Posted by kfizz

I am just stressed in general...I cant put a finger on something specific I just feel stressed..

I feel like I have so many little things left to do..but I cant start them until other things are done...like making my menus and programs

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This! I want to get it done but I cant until I meet with the RH, the church and so forth!

And money. Where the hell am I coming up with this money?

my mom wants me to invite family I have never met. FH and I don't want to make anyone upset, but we are paying for this whole thing ourselves. He just lost his job and we just don't have the $$ to pay for extra people.

MONEY is my main stress. I need a lot more of it in order to pull off this wedding. FH and I bought a house in Feb. '10 and we have done a lot of renovations This doesn't leave us with much for the wedding so we are left to take out a loan Part of me regrets buying the house so far before the wedding because we wouldn't be worrying about a mortgage and other bills and would be able to put sooooo much more money toward the wedding. BUT the another part of me is so happy that we have a established a home together.
Also, my cousin (who is my bridesmaid) lives in Arizona and just recently got engaged. She decided to have her wedding a month before mine. What bothers me is that a month before our wedding FH and I have to travel to Arizona when all of our final payments are almost due. I need to hit the lottery!
On top of all of that I am worried that the wedding I have been dreaming about and have been working so hard on is not going to go as planned. I just want my guests, FH, and I to have the time of our lives (and not be too much in debt) Is that too much to ask?

Thanks girls it feels good to let it out

I'm stressed that I live so far away and never have time to do anything. And any time I DO come back to LI, I never get to hang out with my family or friends because ALL we do is wedding stuff. I just can't wait til its over at this point

I feel like Jessie Spano...'Theres never enough TIME' 'Im so excited, Im so excited, Im so ....scared'

I also worry that since we don't have a 'theme' everything is just going to end up looking thrown together and lame! ugh.