Let' s be honest girls about the BP.....................
Original post by mrszg2be
Is there anyone who put someone in their wedding party just because she or he is a member of your FH's family. Deep down u know they are going to do or say something that will annoy u on your special day. I have a feeling my FH will want his rowdy little niece as a flower girl and his equally rowdy nephews as ushers. I feel like once u feel obligated. Your whole family will end up being the wedding party. Who will be the guest. When does the BS wedding politics stop!
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Posted by LR5883
yes, there is somene like that and that's all I'm gonna say!
Well said.... I second that!
kam29
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My FSIL is in the bridal party along with her husband and two children but we're close. I have to say that she has been the 2nd most helpful person (aside from my MOH). She's done more for me than 2 of my BM's together. I guess I'm very lucky!!
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Nope! DH has two sisters with families...We are both close to one and her entire family...the other...well We asked her and her kids...knowing she would refuse without her hubby...well guess what?! She refused! She said well, the kids can still be in it...NOPE! I know...it may sound mean, but only if you knew her!
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My FH has a couple of very obnoxious little cousins that I'm sure his aunt (their mother) would love to see in our wedding party, but luckily FH and I saw eye to eye and said no way. Now the kids are supposedly not even coming to the wedding because they'll be away at summer camp!! I was so happy when I heard the news!!
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Ring Bearer (FH's nephew)..will be 2 1/2 and he's always crying/unhappy when I see him. I really hope his other grandparents will grab him asap when he cries during our ceremony..and he will.
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Yup. FSIL is in the party.
Ahh, the things we do to keep the peace.
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There is nobody in my bridal party on his side OR my side who we do not want to be there. Nobody could EVER make me include or exclude anyone.
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aminilady
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Yes. Going through it right now.
It's pretty much last minute now to be searching for a jr bridesmaid dress for my FSIL. She's 13 and I don't think the BM dresses we chose (Bill Levkoff #966) fits her age. He says he really wants her in it.. now i have to search for a dress that is IMO too late to find and that would look OK as if I don't have more to do.
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Posted by aminilady
Yes. Going through it right now.
It's pretty much last minute now to be searching for a jr bridesmaid dress for my FSIL. She's 13 and I don't think the BM dresses we chose (Bill Levkoff #966) fits her age. He says he really wants her in it.. now i have to search for a dress that is IMO too late to find and that would look OK as if I don't have more to do.
Why the wedding politics??
My neices are 12 and 14 and we ordered them the smallest sizes of two different Levkoff dresses. They were altered to proportion and they are appropriate or their father would not let them wear it. You may wish to simply have them make straps if that makes you more comfy.
aminilady
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My neices are 12 and 14 and we ordered them the smallest sizes of two different Levkoff dresses. They were altered to proportion and they are appropriate or their father would not let them wear it. You may wish to simply have them make straps if that makes you more comfy.
