LI Wineries

Thanks for all the ideas. We may just rent a limo so no one has to drive.

This site gives you a list of most wineries and accommodations.

http://www.liwines.com

Hope it helps!

My favorites on the north fork: Old Field, Corey Creek, Shinn (find it off the beaten track; it's worth it), Pugliese, Palmer, and Vineyard 48 (there are other ones I like, but those are my faves in terms of wine quality, beauty, and outdoor picnic areas). If you want a good tour, I'd do Water's Crest. The guy (Jim I think) is really nice; it's very small but he does a great tour and you might be able to sample a wine right from the barrel.
If you make it down to the south fork, my ABSOLUTE favorite is WOLFFER!!! Channing Daughters is great too.
IMHO: Pindar & Duck Walk are too commercial for me, too busy, and the wines are--to me--not as good as the other wineries. HAVE FUN!