Ok, my FH and I have small families and we aren't doing a bp. I have no grandparents left. FH has one grandmother who lives in west islip with her daughter and the family. He also has a step-grandmother who lives in NJ by herself (about 1.5 hours away). The step-grandmother is on his fathers side.
FH is from Ronkonkoma. For the limo's I was originally going to include FH, his father, and his step grandmother (and maybe whoever he picks to hold the rings at the Church). The reason I'm doing this is because the step-grandmother will most likely be driving herself from NJ to Ronkonkoma the night before the wedding and staying at his father's house that night.
So I figured they will get dropped off at my Church and then the limo will pick up myself, my parents and my sister and drive us to the Church.
So, my question is... is it wrong that we're not including his biological grandmother in the limo? I mean, she can get a ride to the Church with either her daughter or with one of her grandchildren. Plus, she lives in West Islip so I can't see having the limo driver make a stop there (It's on the south shore of LI so it's not on the way at all.) And then I don't want FH's aunt to complain about why she isn't invited to the limo.
TIA!
JAAMS
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yikes that's tough
Can FH talk to them and try to feel out the situation?
Or can you just add 2 more ppl into the limo?
ETA: Maybe they can meet at the house where the limo is going, that way the limo doesn't have to make the extra stop, but tehy can still go in it.
Marianne13
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Posted by JAAMS
yikes that's tough
Can FH talk to them and try to feel out the situation?
Or can you just add 2 more ppl into the limo?
ETA: Maybe they can meet at the house where the limo is going, that way the limo doesn't have to make the extra stop, but tehy can still go in it.
Thanks I thought of that but then they'd be going east to Ronkonkoma to go back to Queens for the Church. I'll talk to FH.. Maybe they can drive to the Church and his grandmother can come to the RH with us in the limo.