Checkbook Thank you speech at the wedding Wedding rings Emergency bag Hanger for dress after getting changed Flowers for cake Marriage license Bobby pins Cash Brush Extra pantyhose Needle and thread Safety pins Tissues Mints Make-up kit Perfume House and car keys List of Phone numbers Pair of flat shoes Bags for honeymoon Pen for guest book Bag for tiara, veil, shoes
__________________ Make sure all of this is done and ready to be done! music - make sure pianist has music sheets if necessary specify time by which church must be decorated who will be responsible for bringing/setting up alter candles and memory candle us the night before make sure written vows are approved by minister make sure MOH has copy of vows for me and best man has copy of vows for Corey index cards) make sure readewr has nicely typed copy of reading at ceremony delegate someone to make sure all the above is handled make sure marriage license gets to church get rings to best man who will roll out aisle runner? make sure someone sets up table and arranges programs night before make sure someone collects extra programs (and guest book)Hostesses take to reception hall Photography compile must-have list develop organized system for keeping track of responses and gifts arrange for florist to get cake flowers to baker make sure someone keeps top layer and cake topper
Flowers/Rentals arrange for rental items to be returned arrange for someone to make sure everyone has flowers (all BMs have their bouquets, all GMs have bouts, etc.)
Reception little details who handle gifts, hand out checks,money bag, put someone in charge of gifts who will collect guestbook/extra candles/extra tablecards/extra favors who will set up placecard table/gift table and guestbook table? Hotel? me to ceremony groom to ceremony bridal party (to their cars) after reception
Guests out of town bags me at hotel lobby/rehearsal dinner who will get them to the hotel? How will hotel handle distribution? Bridal Party give gifts (RD?) Reception music playlist/DO NOT playlist for DJ get DJ copies of songs he doesn't have if necessary who will give those copies to DJ? exit song for ceremony entrance and exit song for reception arrange for someone to pick up my dress and tux the next day at the hotel Miscellaneous get groom's gift to him if I change at Church - guestbook&pen - placecards - birdcage - dress - veil - tiara - shoes - underwear - favors -makeup and emergency bag make sure someone keeps up w/hotel room keys during reception
PRAY Buy a couple Disposable cameras Make directions cards - Centerpieces candles - Personalize favors - Gifts for parents - Finalize Menu by Ceremony Reading or Bible verse - Choose Music\Meet organist - Candelabra Decor - Boys fitted for tuxes - Marriage License – - How will programs be displayed, handed out? baskets - Who's walking the Mothers down aisle(which usher)? Reception - Meet with alcohol dealer deposit on keg - add to CD play list Hotels - Gift baskets?
Stationary Directions and Thank you Cards - Put together programs - Maps and directions
Bridal Attire Bridesmaids - Make sure each girl picks out shoes - Finish bags Tuxedos
DJ - Make list of bridal party names for intros - Schedule when I want these dances to take place - schedule final meeting OTHER - confirm arrival times - Schedule Final Meeting Photographer - Confirm arrival times Flowers - Choose flowers for Ceremony alter arangements - Schedule Delivery time Transportation confirm limos or rental cars - Create timeline done - Confirm Pickup times Misc. - 'Day of' and 'Day before' agendas done - turn in my ring to be polished
EJSD2006
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too funny that people forget their house keys! i probably will too!!!!
great list! thanx!!!
ef922
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this is so helpful! thanks!
moonlithaze
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Thank you for posting this it will definitely come in handy!
shelby34
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Thanks! That will help a lot....though it is scary to look at!
Mdolph6
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Thanks for that, now lets hope I forget NOTHING
kam0813
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great list...now if only i could get through the whole thing without my head exploding..
ElegantBride
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so much to remember....goodness!
bride2b24
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thank you so much!!!!
SweetCin704
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great list!
pgonzo
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bump for ppl who didnt see it
ElegantBride
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bump
Maybride07
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NY031978
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at my sisters wedding....we forgot her touch up make up! Luckily her make up girl was a friend and she was at the wedding.....so she has all the colors w/ her!
july06bride
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I forgot my airline tickets- THANK goodness my cousin was able to bring them to the airport for us and we had enough time...it would have cost us a lot of $$$ otherwise
the RB did not have his pillow to walk down the aisle (DOC forgot and so did we) but he did walk into reception with it
Chrissywish
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Awesome list
MrsMichel07
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PegaLega
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WOW there are alot of things on there I dont have on my list for the day of-thanks
SoontobeMrsH
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awsome list added it to my notebook
ama1771
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great list, but now I feel overwhelmed!!
Audreygirl
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i wouldn't say i forgot this, but make sure that you keep your makeup WITH you, not your moh or mom or sister. you are usually NOT with them throughout the day, especially when taking pictures during the day, in the limo after the ceremony, etc. i gave my moh my lipstick and i regretted it b/c after the ceremony i was lipstickless for the rest of the day, pictures, etc.
also - as easy as this sounds - just make sure that ALL your tip envelopes are done and with the right person at least a day before the wedding. we didn't have time to ensure this was done, so some of our vendors didn't get tips till after the wedding day. it stunk.