do you girls live with you FH? did you before you got engaged? waiting til you get married? etc...
i moved in with my FH July 8th 2002 and he proposed in August.
so its like weve been married already. i honestly cant see anythign changing.
jonspenguin11552
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we will be living togther 3 yrs in august. we have been engaged over a year.
d&d05
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We've been living together for almost 3 years now. We got engaged at the end of March this year.
suezboss
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we STILL don't live together (sore subject, seeing how we'er NEVER closign on our co-op!!! ahhhhhhhhhh)... but we've been together for 5 years (on friday!) and got engaged in Jan. HOPEFULLY we will be living together NEXT WEEK?!?!?
February05
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we moved in together last june (2003) and FH proposed in March of this year... yeah, i dont think anythings going to change after were married either (except my last name)
ltlbkworm4
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This January we'll be living together 10 years!!!!!!!! So at this point the wedding is just to have fun and make things legal.
lolita4life
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suez.. eh enjoy it while you can! no, but tdoes everyone thats been living together for awhile feel married already? what do you think will change?
February05
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Posted by ltlbkworm4
This January we'll be living together 10 years!!!!!!!! So at this point the wedding is just to have fun and make things legal.
WOW! you are a patient woman!!
ltlbkworm4
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You can say that again!!!! He better know by now how lucky he is!!!! (Especially now that hunting season has started and I won't see him for the next 2 months!!)
suezboss
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Posted by ltlbkworm4
This January we'll be living together 10 years!!!!!!!! So at this point the wedding is just to have fun and make things legal.
isn't common law marrige in effect after 7 years?!
ha ha... and Lolita- I already DO feel like we're married... ahhhhhhhhhh haaaaaaaa
d&d05
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I don't think much will change. All I can think of is that we'll have a joint bank account and we'll be looking into having kids.
ltlbkworm4
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How I wish NY State had common law marriage or else we would have been official 3 years ago!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
lolita4life
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i think the only thing that will change is my last name and the fact that now i'll DEFINATLY be stuck with him! hehe.... we dont need kids yet, maybe ill look into another dog!
BlondeJD
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FH and I have been living together for a year and a half. He proposed about 6 months after we moved in together, which says a lot because we were living in my studio until my lease was up (his ended a few months earlier) AND we were living with our 3 cats in that very small studio.
prncssrachel
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It'll be three years living together when we get married in July. If anything changes after marriage, I'll be shocked
lolita4life
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ppl are always telling me not to get married and 'so much changes when youre married' i just dont see how it can
Russo'sbride
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We have been living together for a little over a year and a half. We became engaged about 4 months after we were living together. I feel like we are already a married couple.
Aga
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we lived together for 8 months, then we got married in a civil ceremony, have been married for 4 years and having a real wedding next year
MACGIRL
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We Wont be living together until we get married. My mother would have a coronary. Besides I dont mind. It just gives me something to look forward to.
Moosey911
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We've been living together for 3 1/2 years, I had a kitty already, we got our dog after 2 years (one of my many rescues), we bought our house in April of this year, and he proposed in the beginning of September. SO, we did things WAY backward, but I wouldn't change a thing. I'm just glad the wedding will come before the children (hopefully!!!)
