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Long!! FH SIL is annoyed at my whole wedding....

EmiNoa628 Posted:

Long!! FH SIL is annoyed at my whole wedding....

I'm so excited preparing and talking about my wedding with her last week and she said very sarcastically 'Ahhh you got me tired with this whole wedding stuff'... She has been acting funny ever since FH proposed. We have been together for 4 1/2 years and I have no words to express how great we both feel. First we moved to ATL last year and bought a house. Then this year we bought a larger brand new home. Our families are very proud of everything we have accomplished in such a short time. I feel with the love and support from FH and I we have accomplished everything we wanted.

But she has always acted funny as if I have a competition with her. This is ridiculous because FH doesn't compare to his brother. They are two different people.

This Tuesday a long time friend found out that I was getting married and he said in a joking matter ' The truth has hurt me' and he started laughing. Well the way he said it was soo funny I posted that on BB Messenger.. So he can see it.. When she saw that she took it personally and wrote me 'Stupid Text'... It got me so upset becuase she only has had negative things to say about everything I do and say. FH got very upset becuase he has told me [lenty of times to stop talking to her becuase she is soo negative. But I really do so becuase I feel bad for her and everything she goes through.. Huhh I got so upset at her and told her off. She is an insecure woman and always trying to make other peoples lives miserable...

Sorry for venting but I couldn't hold it in anymore... She is NOT going to my wedding... I don't want negative vibes around our special day.. FH approves..
Dani777 Posted:

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Awww..I'm sorry that you are going through this.. I would take your FHs advise and stear clear of her. You don't need added stress on your wedding...

Nitania13 Posted:

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Awww, I'm so sorry to hear that. If it makes you feel any better I have a similar situation. I have a similar situation w/a friend that is always trying to be competative when I HATE competing w/ppl. Not that you don't like doing your best, but competing w/other girls is so lame! Your SIL is obviously REALLY jealous & envious of you. My advice, don't tell her anything anymore. She's just going to spew venum at you and keep trying to make you feel bad. Maybe it hurts her that she'll never live up to what you and your FH have, and she doesn't have the emotional maturity to deal w/it in a healthy way. Just don't include her in the details then. You don't have to make yourself a victim of her dysfunction. Some ppl are unfortunatly incapable of being happy for what they can't have. Just cut her off like a gangerous limb! That's what I do. I give my friend as little to feel insecure about as possible. That way, I don't resent her as much. HTH!

ChrissyV729 Posted:

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So Sorry... I hate when people are like that. I don't understand why some people find it so hard to just be pleasant. I hope that everything works out and I agree... stay away. Maybe she'll get the hint or ask you what's wrong and then you can let her have it!

missjones2007 Posted:

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yea she sounds like a straight up hater....it good that you left her alone!

EmiNoa628 Posted:

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Posted by Nitania13

Awww, I'm so sorry to hear that. If it makes you feel any better I have a similar situation. I have a similar situation w/a friend that is always trying to be competative when I HATE competing w/ppl. Not that you don't like doing your best, but competing w/other girls is so lame! Your SIL is obviously REALLY jealous & envious of you. My advice, don't tell her anything anymore. She's just going to spew venum at you and keep trying to make you feel bad. Maybe it hurts her that she'll never live up to what you and your FH have, and she doesn't have the emotional maturity to deal w/it in a healthy way. Just don't include her in the details then. You don't have to make yourself a victim of her dysfunction. Some ppl are unfortunatly incapable of being happy for what they can't have. Just cut her off like a gangerous limb! That's what I do. I give my friend as little to feel insecure about as possible. That way, I don't resent her as much. HTH!



Nitania - Thanks.. She is just an insecure F@*&'er...

I know it kills her that with my straight forward attitude his family has fell in love with me... Not that I care much about that becuase I'm with FH not with them. But they all say that if they can clone me twenty times they will do it just to have the men in their family as accomplished as FH is doing with me. Its not that I take all the credit.. He is awesome and has an outstanding heart.. I just have little patience for the hatred...
EmiNoa628 Posted:

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Posted by missjones2007

yea she sounds like a straight up hater....it good that you left her alone!



Miss Jones.... You are soo right.. She is the biggest hater I have ever met.. She has always felt insecure in her relationship and wants to brush that on other ppl and I'm not having that...

Thanks for the reply... I love you girls.. Always there when I need to vent...

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