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LONG-My Depressing Birthday

MF9282 Posted:

LONG-My Depressing Birthday

Well today is my birthday
FH is only off on Monday's, Tuesday -Sunday he works 9-8:30-9 which does not leave time for much. This weekend FSIL (who is quite the
b%tch) is away at heir friends house with her husband and 4 kids they left the 5th with FMIL. She does not have good service where she is and had called her mom complaining that the 1 yr old is a pain he ruined dinner throwing a fit in the rest. and she was texting FH and he was reading it to FMIL & FBIL (she is obsessive with them) well she told him to read them out loud and he was replying.
Well...FH says to me read the messages to mom and John they don't know how to check the texts so the phone beeps and she writes 'So do you like the gifts they picked up for YOUR FIANCE!!!!!'
The other day FH said to me we can go to the mall on Mon. since i am off and get ur gifts I said no I want somehting for my bday no one gets me much ne more I like a suprise, so I guess he never went b/c he planned on doing that and I read this and I was so sad trying not to cry in front of them we leave and get in the car I start crying and yelling at him and he said I couldn't get there I wanted to take u shopping and u said u want presents on ur birthday so I told my mom what to specifically pick up and gave her money its not likr i told her to pick whatever and I said well why do they have to tell her, she may be trying to be mean to u (b/c supposably they say she thinks she is being funny) and I said yes, at MY EXPENSE! I go above and beyond on everyone's bday and I would have prefered not to know that why does she have to be like this.
Krisjc2178 Posted:

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Well first of all HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Im sorry that this happened to you. Just try to enjoy your day and make the best of it.
soon2BMrsDee Posted:

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I am sorry! Here - maybe if I 'sing' Happy Birthday to you, you'll feel better?? Here goes nothin'!


Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday dear MF9282
Happy Birthday to you!!


cncoso Posted:

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aawww so sorry...BUT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
RGV07 Posted:

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so sorry you had this crap happen to you


happy brithday dear virgo!!!!
ligirlz Posted:

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I am so sorry this happen. i hope your enjoy your day.
CMaria81 Posted:

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Happy Birthday!!!


I'm sorry this happened to you, but you have us here Here's some champagne Drink up! Now someone pass the cake!!
Bridelikewhoa07 Posted:

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1st off..HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYY!!!!

awwww melissa...dont be sad on your birthday! its your last 'single' birthday!!!!

FH meant well...he should get a little credit for that? sometimes boys have good intentions but dont think things through all the way.

and if FMIL told you to mess with you that is just plain mean. like i said before, (with the whole rehearsal dinner fiasco)... dont let her bring u down. this is supposed to be a really ecxciting time in your life and for her to try to control everything about it is not fair to you and takes away from your happiness.... same with your birthday...dont let her stupidity ruin your day.

i know its easier said than done but try not to let her 'rain on your parade'...whether it be the wedding or your birthday!!!

i hope the rest of your day goes well!!! and happy birthday again!!!!
Dreams do come true Posted:

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I'm sorry... But Happy Birthday!!

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