long rant - just me going crazy

ok i'm 53 days away from my big day. i dont know why but this weekend everything just hit me - im like omg i cant believe in 8 weekends im going to be married already. Maybe its the fact that we did our menus last week, met with church, saw FH in his tux, picked out tuxs for the guys, everything flew off my registry bc i know its this saturday, my cousins are coming from canada & girlfriend is coming from florida on friday for the shower, i ordered samples of my favors, booked our honeymoon. everything just feels sooooo real. i just feel so overwhelmed. and i cant belive its happening. im not saying that this is a bad feeling, cuz its not but im just like OMG!
i am so excited and so happy. but i am so anxious and nervous at the same time. I know im probably crazy. but there's more... last month 'my friend' came on exactly 1/19 -- so im like shoot ill probably have it on my wedding 4/19 - bc im kinda regular... right? so last wed/thur i was a PMSing queen that I am (usually about 2/3 days before my friend comes) but she didnt come...... so its the 25th and still nothing. we took a test on saturday but nada and maybe this has something to do with the fact that im so stresses/nervous. & then this morning/afternoon i felt so nauseas, i dont know if its my nerves, the strong coffee i drank - or- im just buggin out over here. i needed to get this off my chest.
thanks ladies for reading.

You're totally normal btw.

aww don't go crazy .. i know how u feel

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Posted by MayWeddingGrl

My wedding a two weekends after yours, and everything is coming together as well and I'm excited and nervous at the same time. I think the stress might be whats delaying your period. If the test said no, give it another day or two, if you don't get it by the end of the week, take another test. Look on the bright side, if its just nerves, now that iyou didn't get it on the 19th, your next period might be after your wedding date too!

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yeah i know - im happy about that - atleast i wont have it on my day :)

When you are stressing and nervous and going through alot then your 'FRIEND' will be off, its happened to me many times.

I know how you feel, everyday i'll think to myself OMG its coming so soon, its crazy. Ever since my countdown got into the 80's i cant believe it. It just feels extremely close now. I think my shower is in march, then bachelorette party in april, then wedding in may so have alot coming up. I do the same thing and like you said not freak out in a bad way but just crazy to think about. Fh was telling my dad how he is coming to my dads house to watch the euro cup, and even took off one day from work since our countries are playing against eachother lol, and its not that far away its june 13th and he said oh wow we'll be married by then and i was like HOLY SH*T lol. Everyday now i let out these big sighs just thinking about it bc i get overwhelmed with all that has to be done, ppl ask me whats wrong and i say oh nothing hahaha. I am so excited but anxious, and nervous about everything being done and going well.

Its normal i think to feel this way

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Posted by Espo22

and its not that far away its june 13th and he said oh wow we'll be married by then and i was like HOLY SH*T lol.

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I like to look at expiration dates of things and say 'omg I'll be married by then'

to the OP, I get really stressed out about a lot of things too -- you are totally normal

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Posted by Espo22

When you are stressing and nervous and going through alot then your 'FRIEND' will be off, its happened to me many times.

I know how you feel, everyday i'll think to myself OMG its coming so soon, its crazy. Ever since my countdown got into the 80's i cant believe it. It just feels extremely close now. I think my shower is in march, then bachelorette party in april, then wedding in may so have alot coming up. I do the same thing and like you said not freak out in a bad way but just crazy to think about. Fh was telling my dad how he is coming to my dads house to watch the euro cup, and even took off one day from work since our countries are playing against eachother lol, and its not that far away its june 13th and he said oh wow we'll be married by then and i was like HOLY SH*T lol. Everyday now i let out these big sighs just thinking about it bc i get overwhelmed with all that has to be done, ppl ask me whats wrong and i say oh nothing hahaha. I am so excited but anxious, and nervous about everything being done and going well.

Its normal i think to feel this way

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i just read what you wrote - and its EXACTLY the same way I feel. People ask me what's wrong? are you ok?
YEAH SURE!!!
Just having a million heartattacks over here but its all good I am marrying the man of my dreams :)

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Posted by bluegreen08

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Posted by Espo22

and its not that far away its june 13th and he said oh wow we'll be married by then and i was like HOLY SH*T lol.

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I like to look at expiration dates of things and say 'omg I'll be married by then'

to the OP, I get really stressed out about a lot of things too -- you are totally normal

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i know like 4th of july - or memorial day weekend '- we'll have our wedding bands on
OMG!

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Posted by gabbie83

ok i'm 53 days away from my big day. i dont know why but this weekend everything just hit me - im like omg i cant believe in 8 weekends im going to be married already. Maybe its the fact that we did our menus last week, met with church, saw FH in his tux, picked out tuxs for the guys, everything flew off my registry bc i know its this saturday, my cousins are coming from canada & girlfriend is coming from florida on friday for the shower, i ordered samples of my favors, booked our honeymoon. everything just feels sooooo real. i just feel so overwhelmed. and i cant belive its happening. im not saying that this is a bad feeling, cuz its not but im just like OMG!
i am so excited and so happy. but i am so anxious and nervous at the same time. I know im probably crazy. but there's more... last month 'my friend' came on exactly 1/19 -- so im like shoot ill probably have it on my wedding 4/19 - bc im kinda regular... right? so last wed/thur i was a PMSing queen that I am (usually about 2/3 days before my friend comes) but she didnt come...... so its the 25th and still nothing. we took a test on saturday but nada and maybe this has something to do with the fact that im so stresses/nervous. & then this morning/afternoon i felt so nauseas, i dont know if its my nerves, the strong coffee i drank - or- im just buggin out over here. i needed to get this off my chest.
thanks ladies for reading.

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I'm sure its' stress why you haven't gotten it...It just happened to me this month. I'm pretty regular and I was 8 days late...we did a test, but it was negative. I normally wouldn't have even worried but I would've been due at the exact time of wedding. I eventually got it...stress does bad bad things to your body.

You are absolutely normal....BTW...I was in Greenpoint yesterday visting a friends parents and I was showing FH the church (St.Stans) where I made all my sacraments and I was thinking of you.

Totally normal how you are feeling... A LOT going on & it's so close!!! I felt like this from time to time after the 3 month mark too.... It's great you've been getting so much done too last week.

As for your friend- I am sure it's just nerves & stress....

SO EXCITING !!! YOU're getting married & it will be the best day ever

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I'm sure its' stress why you haven't gotten it...It just happened to me this month. I'm pretty regular and I was 8 days late...we did a test, but it was negative. I normally wouldn't have even worried but I would've been due at the exact time of wedding. I eventually got it...stress does bad bad things to your body.

You are absolutely normal....BTW...I was in Greenpoint yesterday visting a friends parents and I was showing FH the church (St.Stans) where I made all my sacraments and I was thinking of you.

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thanks for thinking of me lol :)

You are completely normal. You friend doesn't come when your stressed genreally. I know when I've been under extreme pressure it just doesn't happen and I take birch control which means it should come regularly.

It's an overwhelming time, but on the bright your seeing all the fruits of your labor come into view.

Soon you;ll be a Mrs.

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Posted by bluegreen08

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Posted by Espo22

and its not that far away its june 13th and he said oh wow we'll be married by then and i was like HOLY SH*T lol.

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I like to look at expiration dates of things and say 'omg I'll be married by then'

to the OP, I get really stressed out about a lot of things too -- you are totally normal

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i do that with everything to hahaha...like weddings we have to attend and yes even holidays like gabbie mentioned such as memorial day weekend, 4th of july and even just the summer in general, its like WOW this summer ill be a wife ...meanwhile not long ago my concern when summer was coming up was how much i was going to party

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Posted by gabbie83

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Posted by Espo22

When you are stressing and nervous and going through alot then your 'FRIEND' will be off, its happened to me many times.

I know how you feel, everyday i'll think to myself OMG its coming so soon, its crazy. Ever since my countdown got into the 80's i cant believe it. It just feels extremely close now. I think my shower is in march, then bachelorette party in april, then wedding in may so have alot coming up. I do the same thing and like you said not freak out in a bad way but just crazy to think about. Fh was telling my dad how he is coming to my dads house to watch the euro cup, and even took off one day from work since our countries are playing against eachother lol, and its not that far away its june 13th and he said oh wow we'll be married by then and i was like HOLY SH*T lol. Everyday now i let out these big sighs just thinking about it bc i get overwhelmed with all that has to be done, ppl ask me whats wrong and i say oh nothing hahaha. I am so excited but anxious, and nervous about everything being done and going well.

Its normal i think to feel this way

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i just read what you wrote - and its EXACTLY the same way I feel. People ask me what's wrong? are you ok?
YEAH SURE!!!
Just having a million heartattacks over here but its all good I am marrying the man of my dreams :)

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i know lol, i sit there and things come to mind that i have left to do or things about the day of and i start stressing to myself. This whole weekend i did this alot. I asked my mom if my uncle is driving my grandma, i am asking about ordering food to have for morning of for everybody lol, such minor things lol.

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Posted by gabbie83

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Posted by MayWeddingGrl

My wedding a two weekends after yours, and everything is coming together as well and I'm excited and nervous at the same time. I think the stress might be whats delaying your period. If the test said no, give it another day or two, if you don't get it by the end of the week, take another test. Look on the bright side, if its just nerves, now that iyou didn't get it on the 19th, your next period might be after your wedding date too!

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yeah i know - im happy about that - atleast i wont have it on my day :)

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When you're stressing your 'friend' tends to be delayed- I acutally skipped a month myself and was happy that my 'friend' arrived last Thursday! Now I know I wouldn't have to worry about that on my wedding day!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by gabbie83

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Posted by Espo22

When you are stressing and nervous and going through alot then your 'FRIEND' will be off, its happened to me many times.

I know how you feel, everyday i'll think to myself OMG its coming so soon, its crazy. Ever since my countdown got into the 80's i cant believe it. It just feels extremely close now. I think my shower is in march, then bachelorette party in april, then wedding in may so have alot coming up. I do the same thing and like you said not freak out in a bad way but just crazy to think about. Fh was telling my dad how he is coming to my dads house to watch the euro cup, and even took off one day from work since our countries are playing against eachother lol, and its not that far away its june 13th and he said oh wow we'll be married by then and i was like HOLY SH*T lol. Everyday now i let out these big sighs just thinking about it bc i get overwhelmed with all that has to be done, ppl ask me whats wrong and i say oh nothing hahaha. I am so excited but anxious, and nervous about everything being done and going well.

Its normal i think to feel this way

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i just read what you wrote - and its EXACTLY the same way I feel. People ask me what's wrong? are you ok?
YEAH SURE!!!
Just having a million heartattacks over here but its all good I am marrying the man of my dreams :)

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i know lol, i sit there and things come to mind that i have left to do or things about the day of and i start stressing to myself. This whole weekend i did this alot. I asked my mom if my uncle is driving my grandma, i am asking about ordering food to have for morning of for everybody lol, such minor things lol.

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omg i know!!!!
my mom is like - what will we eat the morning off? she went out a bought an extra fridge to put in the garage 2 weekends ago !!! shes going crazy with me!!!!

Gabbie don't worry! It's normal to be feeling like that! I am 5 months away and feel the same way! As for your friend I'm sure it's just your nerves. If you remember Tilde and Liz posted the same exact thing before their wedding.

Relax everything will be perfect!