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Long vs. short dress as a wedding guest

pa56 Posted:

Long vs. short dress as a wedding guest

I recently purchased this BCBG because it was 70% off. I have several friends who are single and several who will get engaged within the next 1-2 years, so there will be plenty of occassions to wear it. BUT.... my question is when is it appropriate to wear a long versus short dress? I thought long dresses were meant for black tie weddings, although I can't see any of my friends having such formal weddings.

Please advise!!
AdriandSteve Posted:

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if it's a night wedding and the location calls for it then its fine

MrsC2010 Posted:

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i know a lot of girls on here say a night wedding is more formal and calls for long gowns...but i dont think i have ever seen anyone wear a long gown to the evening weddings i have been to...just really nice cocktail dresses


eta: thats a beautiful dress though!!!!
pa56 Posted:

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Posted by MrsC2010

i know a lot of girls on here say a night wedding is more formal and calls for long gowns...but i dont think i have ever seen anyone wear a long gown to the evening weddings i have been to...just really nice cocktail dresses


eta: thats a beautiful dress though!!!!




The only time I've seen long gowns is at a black tie wedding I went to over the summer (and it was in the evening as well). I'm just hoping this dress doesn't sit in my closet forever!
jonsgirl04 Posted:

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Posted by pa56


Posted by MrsC2010

i know a lot of girls on here say a night wedding is more formal and calls for long gowns...but i dont think i have ever seen anyone wear a long gown to the evening weddings i have been to...just really nice cocktail dresses


eta: thats a beautiful dress though!!!!




The only time I've seen long gowns is at a black tie wedding I went to over the summer (and it was in the evening as well). I'm just hoping this dress doesn't sit in my closet forever!



I would def wear it to an evening wedding! Its very pretty. You can also wear this dress on a cruise for the formal dinners.
FinallyEngaged Posted:

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I have worn a long dress to a couple of weddings.... they way i justify it was for like my close family memebers and my close friends i want to dress it up a little for them b/c they are so special to me...KWIM?

jtgarsik Posted:

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honestly most evening weddings i go to i wear a long dress...unless the location/feel says otherwise..afternoon i'll usually wear short but same as above.

AdriandSteve Posted:

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i've seen long dresses at evening events.

jtgarsik Posted:

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also to add - the dress is like those maxi-style dresses. in the summer if it's an afternoon wedding at a fancy place i think u can get away with it. You can dress it up or down depending on ur hair, jewelry, shoes, etc.. that's why i love those!

SummerBride10 Posted:

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You can definatly wear that to a wedding!

CD516 Posted:

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I had many guests wear long dresses to my wedding and it wasnt black tie. Beautiful dress by the way.

Kristina2009 Posted:

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i always wear a long dress to evening weddings

Kristina2009 Posted:

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Posted by MrsC2010

i know a lot of girls on here say a night wedding is more formal and calls for long gowns...but i dont think i have ever seen anyone wear a long gown to the evening weddings i have been to...just really nice cocktail dresses


eta: thats a beautiful dress though!!!!



I think it may depend on your social circle/family but I can tell you at most weddings I go to [18 in the last two years - yikes!], 75% of the women are in long dresses.

edited for typos
MrsC2010 Posted:

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Posted by Kristina2009


Posted by MrsC2010

i know a lot of girls on here say a night wedding is more formal and calls for long gowns...but i dont think i have ever seen anyone wear a long gown to the evening weddings i have been to...just really nice cocktail dresses


eta: thats a beautiful dress though!!!!



I think it may depend on your social circle/family but I can tell you at most weddings I go to [18 in the last two years - yikes!], 75% of the women are in long dresses.

edited for typos




yeah i am not saying ppl don't wear long gowns...i have just never really seen it at the weddings i have personally been too.
MrsList09 Posted:

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You could just hem it so it's tea or cocktail length. Then you could use the extra fabric as a shawl or make a bag out it.

08JulyBride Posted:

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Posted by pa56

The only time I've seen long gowns is at a black tie wedding I went to over the summer (and it was in the evening as well). I'm just hoping this dress doesn't sit in my closet forever!



I bought 2 long formal gowns in 2005 and have yet to wear either of them I've gone to a few weddings since then, but felt I'd be too dressy (and I would have been based on what everyone else wore to those weddings)
pa56 Posted:

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Posted by MrsList09

You could just hem it so it's tea or cocktail length. Then you could use the extra fabric as a shawl or make a bag out it.



Interesting idea!! Does the length really dictate the fanciness of the dress that much? If so, I might hem it so it's up to my calf - what do you think of that length?
Brat23 Posted:

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Every wedding I have been to lately has a good mix of both! So I think your dress is fine either way. Not to mention it is so pretty!

JenBill61210 Posted:

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i think its fine to wear to an evening wedding, very pretty!

pa56 Posted:

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Posted by 08JulyBride


I bought 2 long formal gowns in 2005 and have yet to wear either of them I've gone to a few weddings since then, but felt I'd be too dressy (and I would have been based on what everyone else wore to those weddings)



I thought about this issue before purchasing the dress, but the 70% sale sign really lured me in! Now I feel even though I got a good deal on it, the fact that it's long will definitely limit the opportunities for wearing it.

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