lost a bm

sarahthegreat Posted: Sep 15, 2005 03:23 PM

lost a bm

i was 'speaking' (email) to my cousin and it turns out she cannot be in the wedding next year.

here is more of the story - i asked her when we first go engaged, literally one day after. she was so excited and said yes. and that was that. we would chat via email every now and then, she lives in HI. so now the wedding is closer and i need to know what her story is. we vaguly spoke last time i saw her about the wedding and she said she'd 'try' to be here on 8/4/06. as many of you know, 'try' is not a word you want to here when it comes to your wedding planning.

so i had to ask here what here plans were. and she told me that she would most likely not be here. and i spoke to my aunt (her mom) and told her the story so she wouldn't think i was trying to kick her out.

so bummed. i now have 4 bm's.....

Kerrycec Posted: Sep 15, 2005 03:25 PM

Re: lost a bm

You have time, I wouldn't worry about it. I'm soo sorry though. They didn't order the dresses yet which is good

DUCKS2001 Posted: Sep 15, 2005 03:25 PM

Re: lost a bm

Posted by smm2675

i was 'speaking' (email) to my cousin and it turns out she cannot be in the wedding next year.

here is more of the story - i asked her when we first go engaged, literally one day after. she was so excited and said yes. and that was that. we would chat via email every now and then, she lives in HI. so now the wedding is closer and i need to know what her story is. we vaguly spoke last time i saw her about the wedding and she said she'd 'try' to be here on 8/4/06. as many of you know, 'try' is not a word you want to here when it comes to your wedding planning.

so i had to ask here what here plans were. and she told me that she would most likely not be here. and i spoke to my aunt (her mom) and told her the story so she wouldn't think i was trying to kick her out.

so bummed. i now have 4 bm's.....

I lost one too I have 5 bm and 6 gm i hate uneven things but this will have to do... good luck with your plans.