okay so being fairly new on here I feel a little out of the loop. I noticed that a lot of people don't disclose too many details about their wedding because people are 'crazy,' 'lurkers,' and 'stalkers.' What does that mean? Like are people going to show up at your wedding?! I don't know what's going on, should I not share too much on here?...I'm confused!! HELP
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okay so being fairly new on here I feel a little out of the loop. I noticed that a lot of people don't disclose too many details about their wedding because people are 'crazy,' 'lurkers,' and 'stalkers.' What does that mean? Like are people going to show up at your wedding?! I don't know what's going on, should I not share too much on here?...I'm confused!! HELP
lol some people have people that know them that will come on the website to see what they are saying. Different people have different motivations, some girls have spies sent by their FMIL's, some girls know other girls that are also getting married and they come on here to steal their ideas. I don't think anyone will show up to your wedding though
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okay so being fairly new on here I feel a little out of the loop. I noticed that a lot of people don't disclose too many details about their wedding because people are 'crazy,' 'lurkers,' and 'stalkers.' What does that mean? Like are people going to show up at your wedding?! I don't know what's going on, should I not share too much on here?...I'm confused!! HELP
lol some people have people that know them that will come on the website to see what they are saying. Different people have different motivations, some girls have spies sent by their FMIL's, some girls know other girls that are also getting married and they come on here to steal their ideas. I don't think anyone will show up to your wedding though
I'm laughing because last week I wrote a huge paragraph venting about my FMIL, and then I pictured her sitting on her computer and reading it....I deleted the darn post...Friggin lurkers!!
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okay so being fairly new on here I feel a little out of the loop. I noticed that a lot of people don't disclose too many details about their wedding because people are 'crazy,' 'lurkers,' and 'stalkers.' What does that mean? Like are people going to show up at your wedding?! I don't know what's going on, should I not share too much on here?...I'm confused!! HELP
lol some people have people that know them that will come on the website to see what they are saying. Different people have different motivations, some girls have spies sent by their FMIL's, some girls know other girls that are also getting married and they come on here to steal their ideas. I don't think anyone will show up to your wedding though
I'm laughing because last week I wrote a huge paragraph venting about my FMIL, and then I pictured her sitting on her computer and reading it....I deleted the darn post...Friggin lurkers!!
AS
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hahahah you deleted it, lololol
There was this 'crazy' situation a while ago and we all got a little nerveous and scared.
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There was this 'crazy' situation a while ago and we all got a little nerveous and scared.
I guess I can't really ask what the crazy situation was, huh? hmmm I hope nobody's stalking me I guess?
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it basically boils down to... this is a public forum where anyone has access to... you just have to be careful about what you chose to disclose.
AS
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Yeah I would post personal information like your address, telelphone # etc etc, but go ahead and post your vendors and wedding experiences, no one can mess with that
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so sad that people have nothing better to do then cause trouble on a wedding site!
Miblove
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How do you even get to all the posts you made?
I may have to delete some things too, haha
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just do what you feel comfortable with!
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okay so being fairly new on here I feel a little out of the loop. I noticed that a lot of people don't disclose too many details about their wedding because people are 'crazy,' 'lurkers,' and 'stalkers.' What does that mean? Like are people going to show up at your wedding?! I don't know what's going on, should I not share too much on here?...I'm confused!! HELP
Well, I don't post things like pics of the wedding gown I want or pics of my BM dresses because FH is a lurker (which means he visits liweddings occasionally and he's able to see the things I post) and I don't want him seeing my dress until the day i'm in it! Also, I wouldn't want any of my guests stumbling upon any of the details i'm having in my wedding...