maid of honor issue

roxyvelas Posted: Jul 27, 2006 10:57 PM

maid of honor issue

Any of you have a moh that acts like it's more of a hassle that she is your moh and that she has no time for you? That's how I'm feeling lately about her.

Nikki24591 Posted: Jul 27, 2006 11:17 PM

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That is how I feel about some of my bridesmaids.....

IslandPrincess Posted: Jul 28, 2006 07:55 AM

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That's how I feel about my TWO maid of honors... I'm trying to decide what to do right now

franksgirl323 Posted: Jul 28, 2006 09:16 AM

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Posted by Nikki24591

That is how I feel about some of my bridesmaids.....

IM RIGHT THERE WITH U!!! SOMETIMES I WONDER WHAT HAPPENS TO PEOPLE WHEN WEDDINGS HAPPEN? PERSONALITIES CHANGE...ATTITUDES ARISE. UNBELIEVABLE.

CKJ906 Posted: Jul 28, 2006 09:36 AM

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October Bliss Posted: Jul 28, 2006 12:21 PM

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Posted by roxyvelas

Any of you have a moh that acts like it's more of a hassle that she is your moh and that she has no time for you? That's how I'm feeling lately about her.

Mine acts like that, but I know she doesn't really mean it the way it's coming across. She is a new mommy and her job is hassling her big time about child care issues. I do KNOW that she is putting together the shower by herself b/c all my other BMs live OOT.

greekchic Posted: Jul 28, 2006 12:41 PM

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oh my god. Mine does the same thing. I actually burst into tears at dinner last night at the thought of how unsupportive she has been. She does however take the opportunity to tell EVERYONE how upset she is that she works so many hours and can't help me. I work just as long----very disappointed in her.

I can't believe that writing this is making me cry

xcalystax Posted: Jul 28, 2006 03:06 PM

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I don't have an MOH, but to be honest none of my BMs have done anything for the wedding except buy their dress. Instead they ask me to help them with everything and none of them volunteer to research hair people, places to get alterations...nothing. So I find myself spending more time worrying about what to do for them than searching for my stuff...

The way I see it is, my FH and family is there for me and that's all I need. In terms of helping me with stuff, I wish I could give my FH an award because he has helped with EVERYTHING except picking out the wedding dress. He's been awesome!

laural2979 Posted: Jul 28, 2006 03:44 PM

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Posted by Nikki24591

That is how I feel about some of my bridesmaids.....

I hope you're not referring to me.

roxyvelas Posted: Jul 28, 2006 04:20 PM

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Thanks for the support. I just feel that sometimes she's too busy for me and that she makes me worry about every prob she has. She should be makeing me less stressed, not more.

moonlitee Posted: Jul 30, 2006 12:44 AM

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OMG!!!! I know exactly how you feel. I am so angry at mine right now.

NY031978 Posted: Jul 30, 2006 01:12 AM

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i know that feeling all too well!!

my moh is good...she means well but there are times i feel like she rubs stuff in my face bc shes getting married not too long after me! But some of my BM errrrrr i cant handle them!!!!

chapel06 Posted: Jul 30, 2006 10:55 AM

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My MOH is the best. She is the only one helping my mother with the shower. The other BM are another story. They are MIA when it comes to this wedding and I dont care enough to worry about whether they get their dresses altered or whether they make it to the rehearsal dinner.

superkat Posted: Jul 30, 2006 11:39 AM

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Posted by roxyvelas

Any of you have a moh that acts like it's more of a hassle that she is your moh and that she has no time for you? That's how I'm feeling lately about her.

My MOH acted like that too. Also, almost every candid picture I have of her from the wedding, she looks sad or angry. She was not a good MOH. She also didn't bother to get us a wedding present. LOL

jenny26 Posted: Jul 30, 2006 02:04 PM

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I am very luckywith my girls they are excited about the wedding and have been there when I needed them to help me at my fittings. My MOH also planned a terrific bacchelorette party. Everything else, I have chosen to do one my own.
I know they have their own lives and I don't expect them to do all the little stuff with me.

EJSD2006 Posted: Jul 30, 2006 04:34 PM

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that's how i felt about 1 of my BM's...so i kicked her out and we havent spoken since

tbtmickey Posted: Jul 31, 2006 04:05 PM

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I had that a bit...basically I focused more on the Bridal Party as a whole and not on moh or bridesmaid, or anything like that. I mean once you ask someone it's done but don't lose any joy during this time...it's too much fun! Hang out with the one's who ARE excited!

roxyvelas Posted: Jul 31, 2006 04:23 PM

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I'm starting to feel really bad because I didn't realize how little money and time she had and I feel like a huge burdon on her. SHe also often reminds me that I planned the wedding the day after her birthday so I may have ruined her going out plans.