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Mailing invites and canceling them?

JIFFY Posted:

Mailing invites and canceling them?

I did a search for this and couldn't find it under anything.

How long before the wedding do we mail invites?
How long before the wedding is the RSVP date?

What does hand cancel at the post office mean?

Thank you bc I know it was asked before but I just can't find it!
Shmar Posted:

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I recently found out the canceling means that they don't put your cards through a machine so your envelopes or stampds dont get ruined.

LandsEnd06 Posted:

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I mailed my invited 1 month before the RSVP date.

I hand cancelled which means they hand stamp each invite so they don't go through the machines.
woobie113007 Posted:

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Might be a dumb question BUT do you pay more to have them hand canceled?

JIFFY Posted:

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Posted by woobie113007

Might be a dumb question BUT do you pay more to have them hand canceled?



Not dumb at all!!! It's actually a great question!
eden Posted:

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Posted by JIFFY

I did a search for this and couldn't find it under anything.

How long before the wedding do we mail invites?
How long before the wedding is the RSVP date?

What does hand cancel at the post office mean?

Thank you bc I know it was asked before but I just can't find it!



you may want to send your invites out 2 months before the day, and have RSVP be 1 month before the day. ;)


2/14/2007 send invites
3/14/2007 rsvp date
4/14/2007 your day!!!!!! :D
happygirl07 Posted:

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Eden's in the ballpark.

They usually say that you should send invites out 6 weeks before the wedding with an RSVP of 3 weeks before the wedding.

However, you can certainly play with those dates JIFF.
Ginal Posted:

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I was told to make the RSVP date 4-6 weeks before the wedding so i made it 5 weeks. I am going to send it out a little over a month before the RSVP date.

iffy Posted:

Re: Mailing invites and canceling them?


Posted by eden


Posted by JIFFY

I did a search for this and couldn't find it under anything.

How long before the wedding do we mail invites?
How long before the wedding is the RSVP date?

What does hand cancel at the post office mean?

Thank you bc I know it was asked before but I just can't find it!



you may want to send your invites out 2 months before the day, and have RSVP be 1 month before the day. ;)


2/14/2007 send invites
3/14/2007 rsvp date
4/14/2007 your day!!!!!! :D




ooohhhh...and what a great thing to do on Valentines Day....mail your wedding invitations...I LOVE that!
LandsEnd06 Posted:

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Posted by JIFFY


Posted by woobie113007

Might be a dumb question BUT do you pay more to have them hand canceled?



Not dumb at all!!! It's actually a great question!



You don't pay anything. I went to the Smithtown post office and they did them for me. They were so nice there.
NY031978 Posted:

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No they dont charge to hand cancel...i did mine yesterday!

I sent my invites w/ 7 weeks notice b4 the RSVP (i was going to do 4-5, but im going away so i wanna get them sent before i leave)

ewickens Posted:

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Posted by JIFFY

I did a search for this and couldn't find it under anything.

How long before the wedding do we mail invites?
We mailed our invites in July for our Sept. wedding
How long before the wedding is the RSVP date?
RSVP was 30 days before the wedding

What does hand cancel at the post office mean?
The post office will stamp each and every envelope by hand w/out it going through the machine. Setauket PO did this for me and none of them were bent/out of shape when they arrived to our guests

Thank you bc I know it was asked before but I just can't find it!


Trishthedish Posted:

Re: Mailing invites and canceling them?


Posted by JIFFY

I did a search for this and couldn't find it under anything.

How long before the wedding do we mail invites?
How long before the wedding is the RSVP date?

What does hand cancel at the post office mean?

Thank you bc I know it was asked before but I just can't find it!



These were great questions!! Thanks for the info everyone!!
ali120206 Posted:

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The invitations will still go through a machine if they are hand cancelled at some point in the delivery process, they just won't go through as many.

If you have a flat invitation, it doesn't hurt to mail them the normal way. We didn't hand cancel ours because the post office told my FH that there no longer is hand cancelling and since he believed them. We have had one response card come back damaged so far but, that didn't happen when the original invitation was sent.

We set our RSVP date 5 weeks before the wedding and we sent our invitations out 2 1/2 months before the wedding for the most part.

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