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major vent -- sorry, a little long

joctorre Posted:

major vent -- sorry, a little long

So last week was very busy for me, and I must admit, I haven't been on here all that much. Here's why:

I went Thursday to look at two reception halls. FH was supposed to come with, but ended up (20 min before we were supposed to leave) deciding that he had too much work to do. I would have made more appointments for that day, but he said he could only look at 2... Needless to say what my mood was as I was stuck in traffic over the GWB!

I hated the first place I looked it. Looked like the wedding would be just thrown together.... FELL IN LOVE with the second one!!!

Called my mom on my way home all excited about the second place. Big fight with her about $$. (Quickly, my parents are divorced and since she paid for my sister's wedding when they were still together, she thinks that my dad should pay for mine. PUTTING ME IN THE MIDDLE of it all... unfair...) Don't get me wrong, if she really couldn't afford to contribute, i'd be understanding, but I think it's a spiteful thing and I don't appreciate the way she's going about it.

Next. FH and FILs and I decided to go over the guest list again. We are up to 240. That is HUGE to me... and

Went away from Fri-Sat for a conference and was all excited to get away, only to come home to:

FH's cousin and his FW have changed their wedding date from 6/18/11 to OCTOBER 16TH!!!!! HELLO?? Got into the start of an argument (I'm not going to bring myself down to her level to start my marriage with all these wars) about how her family is larger than ours and she doesn't care who can come or not...

All right before the Superbowl that we ended up being late to because I was crying and FMIL was on the phone with this other gir's mother (not arguing, discussing nicely) and wanted to talk to me when she got off the phone......

I'm so frustrated......................

Thanks for listening. Vent over (for now)
MrsC2010 Posted:

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oh man sounds like you had a rough week
Its2Snappy Posted:

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AdriandSteve Posted:

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Jna2010 Posted:

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wow thats def a lot on your plate right now hang in there sweetie!
KTnChris Posted:

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flibbertigibbet Posted:

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yikes. well, hang in there. you know this week will be MUCH BETTER.
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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sorry you had such a poopy week ... don't worry though, things will work out and be wonderful ...

joctorre Posted:

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Posted by weddingbees

yikes. well, hang in there. you know this week will be MUCH BETTER.



I really hope it can't get worse!!!!

Thanks girls!!! I really really really need the hugs!!
JayBee216 Posted:

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yikes!

I will suggest that you should not worry about the wedding on Oct 16th - it's like 2 weeks after yours and a popular month. I'm sure most guests will prob be going to a couple of weddings with Sept-Oct anyway!
MrsHazel2B Posted:

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Sorry you were having such a rough week. Things will get better I'm sure!
joctorre Posted:

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Posted by JayBee216

yikes!

I will suggest that you should not worry about the wedding on Oct 16th - it's like 2 weeks after yours and a popular month. I'm sure most guests will prob be going to a couple of weddings with Sept-Oct anyway!



Oh, mine's not booked yet. The 2nd was my HOPE!!!! The available dates that were given for the place I loved were 10/8, 10/16 (!!!!!!!), 10/29 and 10/30....

ShE was set on 6/18/11. Does she not want us to get married before her??????????? Seriously.....
FutureMrsSoltan Posted:

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MrsHazel2B Posted:

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Posted by joctorre


Posted by JayBee216

yikes!

I will suggest that you should not worry about the wedding on Oct 16th - it's like 2 weeks after yours and a popular month. I'm sure most guests will prob be going to a couple of weddings with Sept-Oct anyway!



Oh, mine's not booked yet. The 2nd was my HOPE!!!! The available dates that were given for the place I loved were 10/8, 10/16 (!!!!!!!), 10/29 and 10/30....

ShE was set on 6/18/11. Does she not want us to get married before her??????????? Seriously.....


Wow, she's bumping up her date a little much! And to totally change seasons? I can see why you're frustrated. She probably figured you hadn't booked yet anyway, so October 2010 is open season.
cateydee Posted:

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aww so sorry you had such a rough week
my parents are divorced and really give me a hard time about money. my dad and mom 'decided' to split it down the middle. which means my dad wont spend a penny over what my mother spends. FM me if u wanna talk more about ur parents
Prada3721 Posted:

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Sending some prayers and hugs your way! I'm so sorry for all this stuff going on -- honestly I wish it wasn't.

Hang in there!
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