MAJOR vent - Why won't people cooperate?
I'm sooo upset!!!
I stopped by my FH house on the way home tonight. He has originally wanted to do his taxes (which is insists on wasting the time to do himself, which is why 2009 isn't even done yet![]()
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). I told him I'm really stressed with the wedding stuff and the apartment, could he please work on setting up the bedroom instead. He's been sleeping on the couch for over 2 weeks and the bedroom is getting messier and messier with his clothes everywhere instead of in the drawers. Also, the doctor's office is now bugging ME and my MOM for some checks he was supposed to bring in. He used moving as an excuse, but he should have found them. I found him sitting his bed, aka a sheet on our couch in his underwear on the computer and watching TV. NOTHING done in the house. He would not hear it and swore that in the 2 hours he'd be home he hadn't had time to do anything. He gets really snappy with me if I try to say anything even though I'm really losing my mind from stress. On the way out I saw a bag with papers and pointed out that the checks could be in there...and he said 'oh maybe they are' and I got pissed that he hadn't bothered to look in this really obvious bag sitting RIGHT THERE.
Since Monday my mom was supposed to seal and stamp my invites but she kept putting it off. She finally did it tonight for me and I just came home and she starts complaining that I didn't invite this one and that one, and this invitation is wrong. meanwhile I have been asking her for literally a YEAR to sit down with the invitation list with me. a YEAR since the STDs went out last summer. She never did, or SHE gave me bad info. Like she never even told me she wanted some ppl invited, or for example she gave me the name of a woman, but not her husband. I even verified the name and address with her when the STDs went out and now when she stuffed the envelope she yelled at me about why isn't her husband invited? Umm...I don't know the husband's name..you never mentioned the husband...'why isn't this one invited with a guest'...umm I don't know. The appropriate time to bring this up would have been BEFORE the damn things were printed, stuffed, and ready to send, don't you think? As it is I have to try to get FH to print some straggler envelopes for me
UGHHHHHHHHHHHH
I stopped by my FH house on the way home tonight. He has originally wanted to do his taxes (which is insists on wasting the time to do himself, which is why 2009 isn't even done yet
Since Monday my mom was supposed to seal and stamp my invites but she kept putting it off. She finally did it tonight for me and I just came home and she starts complaining that I didn't invite this one and that one, and this invitation is wrong. meanwhile I have been asking her for literally a YEAR to sit down with the invitation list with me. a YEAR since the STDs went out last summer. She never did, or SHE gave me bad info. Like she never even told me she wanted some ppl invited, or for example she gave me the name of a woman, but not her husband. I even verified the name and address with her when the STDs went out and now when she stuffed the envelope she yelled at me about why isn't her husband invited? Umm...I don't know the husband's name..you never mentioned the husband...'why isn't this one invited with a guest'...umm I don't know. The appropriate time to bring this up would have been BEFORE the damn things were printed, stuffed, and ready to send, don't you think? As it is I have to try to get FH to print some straggler envelopes for me
UGHHHHHHHHHHHH
