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marriage update- i promise its NOT long and its good!!!

Original post by kdelace

not to bore you with details but my husband finally broke down and is waking up. My tough love finally is working. he called me last night and we had a long talk.. He basically says he misses me and he doesnt want to ruin this marriage with his drinking etc.. He wants to come home and hes willing to go get help. So hes coming over tonight- i made dinner and were going to talk. Were also going to talk to the counselor on Thursday together. Its been two weeks but i think living on a couch with his single friend and drinking has finally got to him. In the beginning he was mad at me because I asked him to leave but as the days turned into weeks he realized that I am serious about this. He had stopped by to get something on Saturday and he looked like ****.... (The grass is always greener on the other side.)
So Im happy, I miss him so much and can't wait to see him. I have a nervous stomach...

Thanks to all of you who supported me and gave me hugs and advice and made me laugh. (DJPILL) Hopefully good things will be coming out of this and I could post happier things!!!

lbf404 Posted:

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Maribelle7777 Posted:

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So happy to hear he's willing to talk. That is the first step and I hope all works out for the both of you!
DebsNY Posted:

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Oh, i'm so happy to hear that... keep us updated and best of luck!
Donna Posted:

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So happy to hear that! I hope dinner went well last night.

Good luck!
Bebalina Posted:

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thats really great news...thank u for the update...i hope it works out...

Boop2704 Posted:

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OK, I know I am nosy Kristi, but how did things go last night? Did you guys make some progress?? I hope so. Call me if you need anything!!
marymoon Posted:

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Best of Luck! Keep up the tough love and make sure he stiks to his word!
FeliciaDA Posted:

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I am SO very glad to hear about this positive step that your husband is taking, and the fact that he FINALLY seems willing to work on and give your marriage a chance.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and hope that everything turns out for the best

Good Luck! You are a strong, amazing woman!!

palebride Posted:

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I am so thrilled to hear this!
I think about the two of you daily...and worry about the trouble this has caused you.....I'm so happy that you stood your ground and showed him how much you love him by not accepting his behaviour any longer!!!
You are a truly wonderful person and it's about time he starts to realize that!

So what's for dinner?
checka Posted:

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I am so glad to hear that you guys are moving in a positive direction.
mlp924 Posted:

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That's great! I hope it works out!

aliciahelene Posted:

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Jen_n_Dale Posted:

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I am pulling for you!!!

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