marriage update- i promise its NOT long and its good!!!

Original post by kdelace

Sep 20, 2004 08:04 PM

not to bore you with details but my husband finally broke down and is waking up. My tough love finally is working. he called me last night and we had a long talk.. He basically says he misses me and he doesnt want to ruin this marriage with his drinking etc.. He wants to come home and hes willing to go get help. So hes coming over tonight- i made dinner and were going to talk. Were also going to talk to the counselor on Thursday together. Its been two weeks but i think living on a couch with his single friend and drinking has finally got to him. In the beginning he was mad at me because I asked him to leave but as the days turned into weeks he realized that I am serious about this. He had stopped by to get something on Saturday and he looked like ****.... (The grass is always greener on the other side.)
So Im happy, I miss him so much and can't wait to see him. I have a nervous stomach...

Thanks to all of you who supported me and gave me hugs and advice and made me laugh. (DJPILL) Hopefully good things will be coming out of this and I could post happier things!!!

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:25 PM

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happy to heard that things are improving and that he is going to help himself. i guess he came to his senses and knew he couldnt lose such an amazing person

DjPiLL Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:26 PM

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BriBri529 Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:29 PM

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Congrats and good luck- I hope all works out for you both!

Jola Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:32 PM

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Congratulations everything sounds good. Hope everything goes well..

Moehick Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:47 PM

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Stay true to yourself and things will work out

allure Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:00 PM

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Lots of Luck to the both of you

kpny622 Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:02 PM

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Awesome! I hope everything works out GREAT!

MrsTC Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:31 PM

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I am very glad to see your good news!

Jax430 Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:47 PM

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I'm glad things have taken a positive turn. I hope everything continues to go well for the two of you.

steph4777 Posted: Sep 20, 2004 11:12 PM

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Good Luck!

mcc101 Posted: Sep 21, 2004 01:42 AM

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Good Luck!!! I hope it works out for you and it takes alot to do what you did but that just shows how much you love him....I really hope it works out forthe both of you fro this point on.

Summerbride04 Posted: Sep 21, 2004 06:59 AM

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I'm so happy he is finally coming around. Best of luck to both of you!

nov.bride Posted: Sep 21, 2004 07:29 AM

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Best of luck working through everything-

2003fallwedding Posted: Sep 21, 2004 07:51 AM

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That is great news!!! Hope you have a nice dinner with him tonight.

Good Luck!!

btrflygrl Posted: Sep 21, 2004 08:12 AM

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good luck Kristi! It's a long and tough road, but the fact that he WANTS help and you are standing by him is ALWAYS a good thing. Bless you both and Good Luck with everything! Keep us posted....I worry about you on a daily basis!

didianita Posted: Sep 21, 2004 08:50 AM

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Good luck! I'm very happy for you. You go girl and save your marriage!

julz33 Posted: Sep 21, 2004 08:52 AM

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That is great news...keep us updated

lullabella Posted: Sep 21, 2004 09:15 AM

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I am so happy that things are working out for you.

jar823 Posted: Sep 21, 2004 09:29 AM

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I just wanted to say that I am so happy for you, that things are turning around for you!

I am happy to hear that he is willing to get help and save your marriage!

Good Luck to both of you!

Keep us updated!

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