Married Girls: Please Give DJ Recommendations

Please keep this in mind:

I don't like club music or most top 40s songs. I like old music (johnny cash, elvis, old italian singers) as well as nine inch nails, depeche mode, ramones, newer indie/dance music like the ting tings, grunge (the pixies, the pumpkins) etc.

I'm looking for a dj who will take my music taste into account, but I'm willing to be flexible. I realize the dj will probably only play a few of my favorite bands, as It's most important to me that guests are up and dancing, so I KNOW I have to be flexible and not micromanage the playlist. However, I don't want justin timberlake or bon jovi played. Also it's extremely important to me that the dj doesn't mess up our dance song, since we've spent months practicing dancing.

Considering what I'm looking for, who would people recommend? Thanks married ladies! :)

<3 Theresa