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married ladies...did you/would you let

sarahthegreat Posted:

married ladies...did you/would you let

your mil or your mom take your proofs with her out of state? only to PA, but my mil wants to take them with her when they visit friends. i said no, only b/c we are working on the album and also b/c i really don't want them out of my sight.

thoughts?
Maybride519 Posted:

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Ooo....yeah....no. LOL. My mom wanted to take them to Massapequa and I said no...lmao. I don't have my album yet so I am still attached to the proofs.

sarahthegreat Posted:

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Posted by Maybride519

Ooo....yeah....no. LOL. My mom wanted to take them to Massapequa and I said no...lmao. I don't have my album yet so I am still attached to the proofs.



so glad that i am not alone on this. i just asked dh and his response was 'i don't think so.' so it's not just me. thanks
kay Posted:

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nope i wll not

evnme Posted:

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when i gave each set of parents the proof albums, i told them that the proofs are not to leave the house and they cant show the albums to anyone.

sarahthegreat Posted:

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Posted by evnme

when i gave each set of parents the proof albums, i told them that the proofs are not to leave the house and they cant show the albums to anyone.



i have no problem with showing people the album of proofs, but come to me. you know? and the thing is, the same people they are visiting will be here in a few weeks.
lauren721 Posted:

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No way!!! I was weary of letting DH take them to a restaurant to show his dad!

Mrs. dleeny Posted:

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no way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

soon2bcopswife Posted:

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NEVER!!!

stephanielyse Posted:

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Neither set asked, so I didn't have to deal with it, but if they're reliable in that you know they're really going to bring them back next weekend or whever they say they will, why not? They're just pictures. Unless you don't own the negatives. But if you have negatives, just threaten them that if anything happenes they have to pay for reprints of every single proof!

Chrissywish Posted:

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sorry to crash, but i am two years away and already know this is a no....i wont let FH take our vacation pics with him cause i'm afraid he'll lose them or do soemthing to them!!! (we actually bought some formal pics on our cruise)

superkat Posted:

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sarahthegreat Posted:

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i really don't think something would happen, but why should i let her take them with her? they will be here in a few weeks and can see them then. i just hate that she assumed that she could take them

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Nope, instead I would scan a bunch and give her a cd. That way, nothing can happen to the originals.

CLMon7906 Posted:

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UM....NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO FREAKIN' WAY! i wouldn't let my own mother take them....more for fear of what my sister [16 years old] would do to them. i am protective of these things. it might be mean, but if they get lost or ruined, that is $$$$ out of MY pocket, you know?

LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

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no, my dad took them to show them to my grandparents and left them there!
so no, I would not let anyone take them away again!

can you get your proofs online so you MIL can show them off? I can understand how she would want to show here friends, but I also understand your situation.
sarahthegreat Posted:

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we could put some on a disk and give her that. but there are a lot and anyone who has scanned knows it takes forever.

i told her no and that seemed to be the end of it. i just don't want it coming up again.
hmpena Posted:

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My father wanted to bring my proofs with him to South America to show the family. I refused and instead made a copy of the proof disks for him to bring.

sr081906 Posted:

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NO. Anything could happen to them.

I would not part from them.
glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Posted by sarahthegreat

we could put some on a disk and give her that. but there are a lot and anyone who has scanned knows it takes forever.

i told her no and that seemed to be the end of it. i just don't want it coming up again.



Oh yeah, I hear ya! I've only done 300 out of my 1200 and its taking forever!!

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