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christy Posted: Dec 24, 2002 04:49 PM+
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May have to cancel...

I am so sad today. I was going over the wedding budget and it seems we may have to cancel our honeymoon. My FH refuses to consider this, but our wedding is costing more than planned. I am trying to figure out a way to not cancel, but I have to pay everything off too! Anyone else stressing over wedding finances? I hope to work something out. Thanks for letting me vent!
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wacky Posted: Dec 24, 2002 04:55 PM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

Dont cancel the HM. Cut costs, downgrade cetnerpieces. Did you add to the menu from caterer, cut guest list.

There is a way, you need to reasses whats important.
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jennbaby Posted: Dec 24, 2002 05:09 PM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

Christy, even if you postpone your honeymoon, that's ok, remember to 'stick' to your dreams & it may happen!
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christy Posted: Dec 24, 2002 05:23 PM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

Thanks ladies, I will do my best to work it out. Postponing will not be the end of the world either. Thanks for Sticking with me girls!
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Stacey1403 Posted: Dec 24, 2002 05:25 PM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

Christy I hope you can work it out and go on your honeymoon, like Jenn said maybe just postpone it a while
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Sassy Posted: Dec 24, 2002 08:53 PM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

Christy, I hope you dont have to cancel, but like you said it wont be the end of the world, and hopefully you'll get enough $$$$ presents that you can go immediately after

In the meantime, do what wacky said, consider cutting down on some other things, like flowers, types of limos, and all the extras. Just dont cut down on Photography and Video
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lilmrs Posted: Dec 24, 2002 10:36 PM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

Yes hopefully you will make some money at the wedding that perhaps you can go on a honeymoon in the summer...I sure hope that works out for you!
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112903 Posted: Dec 25, 2002 10:10 AM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

Christy, good luck reworking your budget. I hope everything works out so you get your honeymoon.
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shamma Posted: Dec 26, 2002 10:40 AM+
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Christy, I have known of a few people that took their HM a year later and they said it was so worth the wait. They went away for the weekend after their wedding. They got to opportunity to save the money they wanted so they could take the HM they would enjoy stress free. Fret not it will all work out.
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Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Dec 26, 2002 10:43 AM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

I wish you luck and maybe you can go somewhere else but TRY to get away!

We are goin to go to VEGAS for a few days since we are having a December wedding and then go to Sicily in the spring!!!

Good Luck!
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cw0904 Posted: Dec 26, 2002 11:00 AM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

Christy maybe you can do something smaller and on your 1 yr anniversary go to the place you originally planned?
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Fran M Posted: Dec 26, 2002 11:36 AM+
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Re: May have to cancel...

Cristy
We had to postpone our honeymoon at the last minute. We were disappointed but it wasnt the end of the world. We rescheduled it for our 1st anniversary. We had an even better trip than we originally planned. We will remember it forever.
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