maybe im crAZY...

jackieee Posted: Apr 12, 2010 07:57 PM

maybe im crAZY...

OK. I'm going to probably sound nuts, but Dino and I talk pretty much non-stop throughout the day with texts. He always calls if he's going to be late or whatever.

Today was his first day at his new job. It's a temporary job since he couldn't find anything as a cab driver for a provate company.

anyways, his hours are 6am-6pm. There is a guy that takes the car at 6pm so they pretty much have to be there (or a little late).

It's now 8pm and i havent heard from him since 5. He said he phone was dying around 4 and the last I heard was he had to make a run to the city. Soo that could have taken longer than expected, but I get SOOO paranoid and nervous that something bad happened.

Am i completely nuts? I'm bugging out. I dont know what to do. Part of me wants to call the cab company to see if he got there, but i feel like a nut if i do that.

I'm being irrational right????? We dont live far from the cab company...

Michi Posted: Apr 12, 2010 07:59 PM

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I would wait until 830 to make any calls. I always think the worst too but I am sure he is either talking or caught up in work nonsense and he literally cant call u b.c his cell is out. The first day of a new job is always crazy.

Keep us posted

Meli620 Posted: Apr 12, 2010 07:59 PM

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I worry about everything all the time...I would wait another hour...then call, because then it is late. 8pm is only 2 hours. But, I feel your pain. Hope everything is alright.

jackieee Posted: Apr 12, 2010 08:00 PM

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Thank you. That is what I told myself. 9pm Im calling. I REALLY am a nut, but Im just such a big worrier.

Ughhhh i hate this. I make myself crazy

summerbride20 Posted: Apr 12, 2010 08:01 PM

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I am sure he is fine, and will be home at any moment.

It's not irrational. I worry about FH all the time now too. When he drives places, if it takes longer than usual, I freak out thinking about all the horrible things that could happen. HOWEVER, while it is not irrational to have these thoughts because we all do and for good reason... we have to remember we are just being overly paranoid and 99.9% chance we are worrying for no reason!!

He probably had a long first day and was busy and then the phone died and he had some things to do. I bet he's walking in the door as we speak!

Meli620 Posted: Apr 12, 2010 08:03 PM

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I cried once on my stoop for an hour when I was 12 because my parents went for a walk and I didn't know where they were when I came back from my friends house early.

I call Wayne as soon as I get out of work (3:30) and if I don't hear back from him by 5, I start to freak out.

halfbaked Posted: Apr 12, 2010 08:03 PM

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I know, I get worried, too. I always think the worst, but I'm sure he's just fine.

jackieee Posted: Apr 12, 2010 08:05 PM

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Posted by Meli620

I cried once on my stoop for an hour when I was 12 because my parents went for a walk and I didn't know where they were when I came back from my friends house early.

I call Wayne as soon as I get out of work (3:30) and if I don't hear back from him by 5, I start to freak out.

hahah aww that sounds like something I would have done too! I hate that Im like this.

It's just he always calls. And he knows I made lasagna tonight, and he always comes straight home from work yaknow? Especially, if we haven't spoken because he knows I get paranoid and worry.

Ughhh I gotta like do the dishes or something to keep busy.

summerbride20 Posted: Apr 12, 2010 08:59 PM

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Is he home yet? you made me crazy! lol let us know

halfbaked Posted: Apr 12, 2010 08:59 PM

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Posted by mermaid20

Is he home yet? you made me crazy! lol let us know

I was just wondering the same thing!

SummerBride10 Posted: Apr 12, 2010 09:03 PM

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I would be worried too. I worry about stuff like that. You're not crazy, just concerned. Keep us updated.

FallBride2010 Posted: Apr 12, 2010 09:04 PM

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I would be worried too...but I'd wait before doing anything

MerSaysEh Posted: Apr 12, 2010 09:12 PM

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jackie did you hear from him? we're concerned!!

elp6421 Posted: Apr 12, 2010 09:15 PM

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I am sure he is home.. If he wasn't I have a feeling she would be on here.

I have to say, I totally understand. If FH is not home at his typical time I am blowing up his cell.

jackieee Posted: Apr 12, 2010 09:15 PM

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Thank you girls!! He came home at 8:15. I was going to call at 8:30 to make sure he was ok. I was crying when he came in. im such a worrier. Thank youuu. I'm glad I'm not the only one who gets like that!