Maybe I'm making a big deal about nothing.....

When I first started these boards, I didnt join the discussions at first. I just kind of read the posts and gathered as much info as I could. But then I felt the brides here were like my friends, and I signed up because I could talk as much wedding as I wanted without boring anyone. But lately, the atmosphere has changed and we all have to watch what we say in fear that some vendor will lash out or worse yet, our post will be deleted. I dont know about the rest of you, but I come here for honest opinions, and I should be able to get one without worrying about being reprimanded. I want to know that if I ask for a recommendation from brides only, that my FM wont be indundated with unwanted vendor mail. I know when I signed up, there were rules and regulations that I agreed to. Vendors should also have rules and regulations that specify they are not to read our boards. We are here to help each other, not ruin businesses. Also, if a bride decides to give something other than a '10' recommendation to a vendor, it shouldnt be deleted because someone isnt pleased with it.
Dont get me wrong, I completely understand regulating hearsay, because that really isnt fair to anyone. But does anyone agree with me on this?