First I want to say that I am very sorry you are feeling bad....but I want to recommend one thing I have learned. ALWAYS follow your heart. I believe that we all have a little voice inside of us that is revealing our true feelings and if we listen hard enough it will help us make the right decision. Many people ignore or make excusses for this voice but I believe it is always truthful and will guide you. I hope everything works out for you whatever that may be...If you want to make it work I suggest seeking outside help like others have mentioned. My heart goes out to you...hang in there.
esb980
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First of all, let me say thank you to all you ladies for your kind words and good advice. I really can't believe I posted that... I was just so upset at that time.... I actually had to sign off before I said many other things I would probably regret later (like the original post, that I should have never posted).
We start pre-marital in another mo, so maybe that will help. As for now, we're just going to go away this weekend, and relax, and enjoy each other. I am sorry to bother you girls w// this, I'msure I look like a whack job. But thanks again! I really appreciate everything!!
Steph62406
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trust me you don't look like a wack job. We all go threw bad times some way our another. you really need to express the way you feel to your FI. Good Luck to you
beatle06
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aww sweetie take the time to stop and think set up a plan on how you both can work out these problems together, definitely see someone to talk to. i know it a tough time but you will get through it if you work on each little item one at a time... xooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Soon2BeMrs2006
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omg
sarahbelle
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I'm so sorry. I agree with the other posters; you definitely need to speak with him. You have to let him know what is bothering you. It also seems like you need something to fill your day. You need a hobby or something to keep yourself busy while he is at work and out with friends. I wish I had something more enlightening to say. Definitely let us know when you speak with your FI.
