Anyone have jealousy issues? It's not that I don't trust my FH, I have trouble trusting people in general and that trait does not help when other girls come into the picture. I don't want to be a beotch, but I also don't know how to get comfortable with female friends. Any thoughts/advice?
Espo22
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if you trust him 100% then just know that no matter what other girls do then it wont matter bc he wont go for it. He should know how to handle the situation.
Just look at how you handle situations yourself. Yes a guy might come on to you, flirt with you but just bc someone else does something that doesnt mean you would go for it. Other ppl can do other things at any time whether friends or strangers but won't effect how you handle the situation.
stargazerlily
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Posted by Espo22
if you trust him 100% then just know that no matter what other girls do then it wont matter bc he wont go for it. He should know how to handle the situation.
Just look at how you handle situations yourself. Yes a guy might come on to you, flirt with you but just bc someone else does something that doesnt mean you would go for it. Other ppl can do other things at any time whether friends or strangers but won't effect how you handle the situation.
I meant my FH is included in the 'trusting people in general' part. I have real trust issues - how do you really trust someone?
LeeAnne
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i think i trust Fh FULLY because i have never had serious trust issues in the past. ive never been cheated on or abandoned or anything. if you are having trouble trusting because of past issues then seek counseling to help
Espo22
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Posted by stargazerlily
Posted by Espo22
if you trust him 100% then just know that no matter what other girls do then it wont matter bc he wont go for it. He should know how to handle the situation.
Just look at how you handle situations yourself. Yes a guy might come on to you, flirt with you but just bc someone else does something that doesnt mean you would go for it. Other ppl can do other things at any time whether friends or strangers but won't effect how you handle the situation.
I meant my FH is included in the 'trusting people in general' part. I have real trust issues - how do you really trust someone?
i say this is something the two of you have to discuss. Every relationship is different and the trust issues should get resolved bc you dont want to start a marriage where you worry about this.
It depends on how far your trust issues go. Alot of ppl always have it in the back of their minds that you cant just trust anybody but once it starts interferring with your relationship then its something that strongly needs to be communicated. I mean does your jealousy cause alot of fights and just aggrevation from his side too of always getting accused. Does it stop you or him from doing things? Maybe there is somebody you can talk to about this.
