Maybe it's stress but I don't want to get married anymore
Original post by JIFFY
I just want FH dead! I wish there was an icon with a bride choking the groom bc that's the feeling I have to hold back on every single day.
I have a lot to do. I work full time and overtime. I am trying to get the house decent looking bc it's a piece of cr@p. I've had appointments everyday after work.
Last night while FH was at a friends birthday party I was home cleaning out the bedrooms and the closets to make space so I can get my bridal shower gifts off the bed for company. It took me 4 1/2 hours and I started at 9:30. This was after working all day long.
Then I woke up this morning and within 2 hours I already ate breakfast, cleaned out the dishwasher, cleaned out the shed, put the christmas boxes in the shed (which FH was asked to do 4 months ago), touch up painted the bathroom, and cleaned.
That MF'er is home everday bc he is on furlow. If I dont' specifically tell him to do it- it dosen't get done. The closer the wedding gets the more of an f-ing @ss hole he becomes. Childish, condecending. My 3 year old niece acts more mature.
To top it off- we live in a house with his 2 brothers. One has the apt. upstairs and one downstairs. We live on the main floor. It's a long story and i've told it before. His brother smokes. Sits in his room for 3 days (his off days) and smokes cigarettes. The smell comes up to the first floor and all I smell is smoke. It's gross. My clothes smell and everything. He won't stop. Won't cut down. They think i'm a biotch bc I complain. So now I am moving out June 1st. Rediculous right? Not 'we' are moving out. 'I' am moving out. If FH want's to come he can but i'm not living in this hole anymore.
If you hear of a homicide in O'side and I haven't been on the boards well................................
Thanks for the vent! Now i'm even madder then Hell!
Mdolph6
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Re: Maybe it's stress but I don't want to get married anymore
OK Nic, take a DEEP LONG BREATH....your wedding is so close and its got to be just stress. I think at some point everyone goes through this...I know I did. Just take it one day at a time and dont let things get you to this out of control feeling....
We are all here for you so vent away!! Here are some much needed
Just remember DEEP BREATHS
HelenZ
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Hey NIc......you are definitely overwhelmed and stressing out b/c you're only 2 weeks away and your doing all the legwork to make sure everything goes smoothly....unfortunately most men think you can wait until last minute to get things done, my FH does the same thing......he's also on furlough right now (6 long weeks) so I definitely feel your pain!!! He has been doing some work (in between guys nights out w/ the boys), my kitchen is finally starting to get done.....but it's been almost a friggin year since he started........don't let your FH make you feel like you are nagging or complaining just to complain (as I am made to feel so many times by FH).....explain how this added stress of feeling like your doing everything is really making it hard for you to enjoy the wedding day. He should understand how bad it would suck after spending all that money to get married, you don't even feel the happiness you want and deserve to feel b/c you are being consumed by stress.....he seriously needs to help you out NOW!!!! I hope things get better for you girl.....I definitely can relate, and its the most frustrating emotions you can go through feeling so alone when you're doing something that's really for the both of you.......FM me if you need to talk, I'm always here for ya!
ggcopying
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Oh.. I am sorry to hear that but I want to now: If you are moving out, and he is staying there, where are you two going to live? 'You two' are getting married in April and 'You' are going to move out in June?? Sweet heart, don't get upset yet...take a deep breath, the day is getting close and you are more stress out. Tell your FH your feelings and maybe things can get better.. Just think about the bright side: You are getting married in 2 wks.. and You will have a beautiful wedding since you work so hard on it. And then you are going to your HM! Just take a LONG LONG DEEP breath!!
