So im actually really happy!! I have spoken with the Rabbi and are finally meeting with him tonight! FH isnt jewish, and we r having both a rabbi and a priest, but knowing him i figured hed want me to do this part myself and meet with him as late in the planning process as possible, if not the day of. Surprisingly, FH asked me to pick him up and bring him with me to go meet with the Rabbi tonight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He said he def wants to talk to the rabbi and discuss what we would like and have a say in everything! So i printed out a sample interfaith cermony that i LOVE to show FH on the way, so he gets an idea of what to expect................ im quite happy! and looking forward to tonight and hoping all goes well!