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Do any of you have girlfriends (or know of girls) who date guys with girlfriends/wives???
Do you tell them anything about it?? or just let them be??

I think I offended a girl in my job today lol....
She is single, and she likes a guy who has a girlfriend, whom he lives with, she says she doesnt care he has a girlfriend, and just wants to have sex with him......

I told her, thats a little messed up because she wouldnt like it if she was a wife, or girlfriend and a girl KNEW your man had you, and she was still trying to pursue him. I also told her, why make herself #2 to any guy??? why should she be the date girl, the wife, the one he goes home to, the one he has kids with, and youre just a piece of you know what??

so yeah i think she got mad at me lol she was like ummmmmm yeah i guess,if you put it like that....then she just looked at me like i was f-ed up for saying it.......but i told her im only saying it as someone who is going to be a wife, and my mother also always taught me to never be #2 to a guy anyway, you should always be his #1, if you know he has a girl already, why bother?

i totally agree.. that's pretty messed up that she knows he has a gf.

some girl i know of did the same thing. but not only did she know he had a gf (for like 9 years), she actually knew the girl personally. i honestly wish his gf would have found out though bc she is such a nice person and her bf is a complete a-hole in every single way.

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Posted by ellyoxox

i totally agree.. that's pretty messed up that she knows he has a gf.

some girl i know of did the same thing. but not only did she know he had a gf (for like 9 years), she actually knew the girl personally. i honestly wish his gf would have found out though bc she is such a nice person and her bf is a complete a-hole in every single way.

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oh yeah thats even worse...the otherrrrrrr girl in my job is doing that, she was in the girls house the other day and saw the boyfriend earlier that day she thinks they all just friends,,,,little does she know shes doing her man

i have to confess... i was the #2 gurl at one point.... it was when i was single and didnt get enough of an ex the first time around his gf at the time hated me with a passion for no reason... so i figured hey... whats the best way to get back at her and satisfy myself at the same time... sooo me and the ex hooked up... i felt like... if he cant be faithful then thats not my prob... i know... I was a crazy gurl in my younger years

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

i have to confess... i was the #2 gurl at one point.... it was when i was single and didnt get enough of an ex the first time around his gf at the time hated me with a passion for no reason... so i figured hey... whats the best way to get back at her and satisfy myself at the same time... sooo me and the ex hooked up... i felt like... if he cant be faithful then thats not my prob... i know... I was a crazy gurl in my younger years

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thats notttt nice!!! lol

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

thats notttt nice!!! lol

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sowieeeee just stating the truth here

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

i have to confess... i was the #2 gurl at one point.... it was when i was single and didnt get enough of an ex the first time around his gf at the time hated me with a passion for no reason... so i figured hey... whats the best way to get back at her and satisfy myself at the same time... sooo me and the ex hooked up... i felt like... if he cant be faithful then thats not my prob... i know... I was a crazy gurl in my younger years

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hahah!!!! meee 2!!!! it was my ex... and yea.. he started dating this girl... and his girl hated me... and since i hated her too, i kept pursuing him... even tho i never really wanted him.. i just wanted to hook up with him...

he was dating her for 4 years after we broke up soooooo for 4 years... .. he had an affair with me... OH WELL!!!!! that stopped about 4 years ago... he was my 8th bf.. haha!!! so it was kinda like it's ok... i think he is still dating her..

but this girl told FH 3 years ago that she thinks me and her man are still having a fling, even tho her BF denies it.. lol and to keep an eye on me.. lol!!! FH was sooo worried cuz he was a new BF at the time... but i told him not to worry cuz it stopped a year before we got together...

It's the past.. i'm not like that anymore... but you asked... lol

i think what you said is true in every way! she shouldnt be offended! my mom taught me as well to never be #2 to a guy, and any guy who makes you #2 isnt worth your time. i think its terrible when girls, and guys for the matter, know someone is taken and yet they still wanna try and ruin things.

but its totally different though like the girls on here said in the cases where they were #2.. if my ex's new gf hated me for no reason.. id totally want to hook up with him just to give her a reason to hate me!

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Posted by coley1027

i think what you said is true in every way! she shouldnt be offended! my mom taught me as well to never be #2 to a guy, and any guy who makes you #2 isnt worth your time. i think its terrible when girls, and guys for the matter, know someone is taken and yet they still wanna try and ruin things.

but its totally different though like the girls on here said in the cases where they were #2.. if my ex's new gf hated me for no reason.. id totally want to hook up with him just to give her a reason to hate me!

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hahaha.... well said!!!!!

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Posted by crazeee18

homewreckers su#$ lol....there are plenty of men in the world to be going for a 'taken' one

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Couldn't have said it better myself.

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

Do any of you have girlfriends (or know of girls) who date guys with girlfriends/wives???
Do you tell them anything about it?? or just let them be??

I think I offended a girl in my job today lol....
She is single, and she likes a guy who has a girlfriend, whom he lives with, she says she doesnt care he has a girlfriend, and just wants to have sex with him......

I told her, thats a little messed up because she wouldnt like it if she was a wife, or girlfriend and a girl KNEW your man had you, and she was still trying to pursue him. I also told her, why make herself #2 to any guy??? why should she be the date girl, the wife, the one he goes home to, the one he has kids with, and youre just a piece of you know what??

so yeah i think she got mad at me lol she was like ummmmmm yeah i guess,if you put it like that....then she just looked at me like i was f-ed up for saying it.......but i told her im only saying it as someone who is going to be a wife, and my mother also always taught me to never be #2 to a guy anyway, you should always be his #1, if you know he has a girl already, why bother?

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I agree with you completely!!

However, back when I was 15 (so this doesn't count anymore ) I had a HUGE crush on this guy, since I was about 13 but of course was too shy to talk to him, remember those crushes? lolz..anyway..when i was 15 we ended up talking online..and i knew he had a gf, but messed with him anyway because I had been waiting so long..back then I felt like all my prayers had been answered because he wanted me lolz..i made him break up with her to be with me and he did..i guess I am a mini home wrecker At least we were young and they werent living together or had kids..to me thats another whole level!

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Posted by ellyoxox

i totally agree.. that's pretty messed up that she knows he has a gf.

some girl i know of did the same thing. but not only did she know he had a gf (for like 9 years), she actually knew the girl personally. i honestly wish his gf would have found out though bc she is such a nice person and her bf is a complete a-hole in every single way.

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i secong that

Yea I am totally against women who DATE men when they KNOW THEY ARE TAKEN!
I knew someone who dated a guy who was 'taken' but didn't know it.... that I can excuse because that's the 100% the GUYS fault for lying through this TEETH........but if the girl knows and the guy knows.. THEY ARE BOTH AT FAULT

Why would anyone settle to be second to another women... espically when you know about the person....