Men...or just my man! Update

Original post by bride2b57

Apr 10, 2009 11:58 AM

Does anyone have an issue with getting your guy to plan something!? We go over this all the time. FH and I are talking about taking a mini vacation in May. Nothing major maybe rent a cabin for the weekend or something. Anyway, I have asked him if he would mind planning this vacation, since I am a little preoccupied here. Normally, I would go forward and do it...he has yet to start planning anything and May is approaching. The thing that REALLY gets me is that I know he is perfectly capable of planning something like this because last year he went to Cali for a UFC fight with friends!! That takes a lot more planning than a weekend away. The only conclusion I can come to is that he is lazy and knows I will pick up the slack eventually. Are a lot of men like this when it comes to planning or is it just my man?!

So I feel like an *** lol. My FH and I were talking about this last night and he pulled up a ton of cabins he had been researching. Shame on me.

Iluvpoodles Posted: Apr 11, 2009 09:43 AM

Re: Men...or just my man!

I plan ahead of time for major things but other stuff I wait until the last minute. My FH is so laid back and has this eveything will work out calm down outlook. I had vendors lined up and was dragging him to see RH's a week after he propesed. I'm the one whose looking at places for our honeymoon and bascially coordniating this whole wedding lol. He'll be like yea we should go here and I'll say oh what places are good to stay at and I 'll get 'oh don't you know of any can you look at places while you're at work' He can look too but he rather watch the same wrestling match on you tube over and over and over again...